Thanks for the ridiculously thought out and comprehensive replies.
I actually read your drunken post in the early hours and noticed that you had slipped in a more coherent edit today

You have pretty much outlined and explained everything to us and we are much the wiser, and we thank you profusely for that.
Not sure the direction we will take, got plenty of guys willing to watch , as well as a few couples. I think we will attempt an arranged meet before attempting to attract out in the field again.
It will be interesting to see how we enjoy it, and il look forward to letting you know how we get on.
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