Thanks for all the replys I think we are now confident about how we will proceed.
I believe this thread may descend into a bit of an arguement which is fine by me because I have found out what I needed to know and perhaps some people wish to debate the use of condoms.
There are lots of genuine people on this site and there are lots of other people aswell. We are extremely open minded and live and let Live is our attitude I have no problem with people not using protection if that is what suits them but it is not for us at this stage and I carn't really see it being an option in the future without expecting to receive some STD or other which is not an exciting thought.
Once again thanks alot for all the advice
D&S