New to this, so here goes...

Dear Jim, Can you fix it for me to meet a girl/women who is into and likes the following...

Dressing up/role play, masturbation, oral sex, anal sex. A confident partner who is both initmate yet explosive. Confident yet caring. A great lover but a fantastic kisser. Bold yet brave. Exciting and fun.

PS Jim can she have a fantastic smile and have the ability to want you to hold her till the Sun comes up.

If thats a bit much. Then can she just be herself.