Interested in meeting and playing with couples and single ladies. Having been about for a while and I am keeping my expectations realistic. I enjoy kink and BDSM, it is not my life and I can happily play vanilla for those who are not kinky.

I am told I make a firm but fair Dom when with kinky folk. Happy to show you the vaguries of spanking and impact as well as rope bondage and other more specialist aspects of BDSM. It can be easily left at the door if not needed.

Looking for daytime/afternoon/evening meets with nice people both on work days and days off. It is about more than just sex really. Can not accommodate, but hotels can be arranged if required.

I am relaxed and easy going generally and happy to chat and discuss ideas and options. No pressure and no expectation.

I am bi, but only when required. I do not want to fuck every husband in a couple!I'm a top if needed.

I’m tested clean and intend to stay that way.