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Darkfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 48
0 miles · Greater London

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Quote by bluexxx
My favourite part of those times were the pre-munch meet ups, the stupidity in hotels and the massive build up to each one :thrilled:

the old munch bubble :happy: :dancingpinkelephant:
many of us were carried from one month into the next on the strength of those bubbles lol
Post-munch blues lasted as long as the hangover, then there'd be another one to look forward to and the build would start all over again :lol: Good, but very expensive, times :happy:
Quote by Firelizard
It always signifies my slightly naughty side now redface

Over the years, Darkfire has almost become a separate character / personality in her own right. A full on alter-ego loon
It depends on mood, person, circumstance etc whether someone is playing with *insert real name here* or Dark. lol
Dark likes very different things, usually which need to have the lid put back on the box for a bit afterwards :twisted:
Originally Darkfire because I'm dark (and in most contexts: dark hair, dark eyes, dark humour, dark personality, dark side, dark arts and so it goes on....) and fiery (in attitude, temper, passionate in many facets including sexuality, opinions etc, so it all boiled down to that one name totally encapsulating 'me' as a person. I didn't pick it either, it was given to me, and was my coven name, many many moons ago, when I dabbled in other stuff, and so the avatar completely nailed it.
dunno
Quote by bluexxx
Washing - I do that once a week, fine... quite like pegging out actually, it seems so wonderfully retro

It is, isn't it! I went through a phase of loving retro, I have a Cath Kidston peg pinny for this very purpose blink lol
pegging washing out = is worth it for results of the fresh clean bed linen smell. Totally.
that's as domestic as I get though :lol:
Quote by Firelizard
Having to nag Stormy to do everything! Gets right on my tits!!! innocent

send him over to me for ....training :twisted:
smackbottom Stormy, fancy making beautiful Firelizard have to nag you! *tuts*
Quote by tricky-dicky
Don't know if it was ever banned on here but it certainly fell foul of the naughty word filter elsewhere. I believe it replaced it with something like "ickkle baby Jesus birthday"

lol yes, that's the one! I get confused, see, soooo many sites, suchhhh a long time....
naughty word filters, on a swinging site rotflmao and the 2 we came up with were ickle baby Jesus birthday and w*rk.
:rotflmao:
Bah Humbug! I want more sun and summery stuff! cool
Didn't we ban the C word at one point, actually? lol
Ironing.
I hate it.
In fact, it is crossing my mind right now to start playing on the whole Domme impression folk think I project and stick an ad up for a male sub who can iron. Seriously, I could easily trade favours its really no biggie! lol
My ironing sits in an ever-growing mountain, stuff gets ironed as I need it, the rest stays in the pile, it then makes everything else look really untidy and does my nut in but still cant bare to stand for hours on end to sort it when a few days later the pile starts growing again blink
sub applications by pm accepted.
Quote by Redangel2013
I still browse the sites, and halfheartedly look for a meet, but it's changed too much for me. Back when I first joined this site it was initially to get laid, then I found the forums, and developed some great friendships, I also made my name known on another site, and made some amazing friends there too.
Now when I visit forums, there is no community there anymore. The messages I get are from single guys with no profile or banter and around 90% say "want a fuck". I need my brain to be turned on as much as my body, and that just doesn't cut it for me.
Socials are now usually in clubs, which for me defeats the object entirely of socials. There is no such thing as munches anymore.
In short I'm happy to call myself a swinger, because I believe I always will be, it's a mindset, not an activity for me, but I'm not looking for sexual one nighters, I can get that in a normal nightclub, but that seems to be what swinging has turned into recently.

Do you know, that's almost exactly how it is for me too.
I've had an ad for years on another site but go through phases of logging in, actively looking, getting disheartened with the mentality and disappearing again for months.
I 've had almost a 2 year absence from everything (forums/ads) due to sheer workload & personal life that just took over everything else but have met (and seemed to keep...again lol ) the only two guys who didn't approach me with the 'fancy a fuck, luv' attitude and turned them into long term fb's. :thumbup:
Although its taken a complete back seat, the 'swinger' in me has never really left - I'm not interested in lots of play with different people, one-nighters just don't cut the mustard! I want high quality regular play with those who are 'keepers'.
Occasionally the mindset takes over & I have come very very close to taking my male friends to Chams for the experience - I absolutely love that there is something in me that can open these doors to others but I don't think it'd be a regular back-in-the-saddle thing ever again, more a one-off blow-his-mind thing. That's what the sexual side of this is for me now....power, I guess! dunno
And I miss my weekends of munch bubbles & room parties sooooo much! that bit I'd go back to in a heartbeat - with a tag on me that says 'not up for it' (but I kinda had one of those anyway ) :lol:
"Post and be damned"
say what you really think, take the consequences on the chin.
Not to be confused with "light the blue touch paper with false grandeur and expect others to not damn you for it"
faux pas of the Post and be Damned etiquette tend to blow over with a few days but ensure you never get a shag from anyone who witnessed it.
Quote by Geordiecpl2001
@Blue
Indeed, that's because you are naturally well balanced and polite...

HHHmmmmmmm, have you ever met Blue ??
J & S
rotflmao :rotflmao: I just read that and did the blink face too
Quote by meat2pleaseu
81% :eeek:
It's a good job I was a bad girl in my teens because if I did that test based on the last 3 years I'd score a big fat 1%!

I'm quite willing to help you return to your once wicked ways :twisted:
:eeek:
oh my god I am so out of practice I cant even think of a come back line for this!!
erm....ok then? dunno rotflmao
Quote by essex34m
I do still have some unfinished business with some people.

yes, actually there is that :twisted:
while I'm here, why the hell not! :evil2:
Quote by meat2pleaseu
Still not sure how I ended up with the bed and you lot had the floor and sofa :giggle:

Oh, bless you, Cupcake :therethere:. As we're a bit down the line, this wont hurt as much, but I'd suggest that was probably because either (a) no one wanted to join you on the bed, or (b) the ladies were otherwise engaged, off-bed, while you slept.
rotflmao :rotflmao:
Quote by Dlep
and has anyone else noticed they can still hand code all their favourite emoticons? :giggle:

Like riding a bike... :giggle:
lol same. I cant remember when I actually exited SH but its been a number of years, and I can still recall most, I still use it when talking on fb to people here, just to make the link of how we know each other! wink
awww kiss I don't think you have anything to worry about, Sercher's still suffering PTSD from that night and he was in there far less time than you were! as first Munch baptism's go, you can have the ubercool 405 survivors badge a while longer lol
Quote by meat2pleaseu
It was a baptism by fire as I was sharing a room with Darkfire, Fallen Angel, Making Cocoa and BiWelshMinx (aka Binxy). We couldn't get in to the hotel after the munch as they had a door list and there was only 2 people registered in the room so I had to hold up a drunken Binxy (who was standing on my feet as hers were cold) while the other went in- then I had to convince the door staff Binxy was someone else and my name had been spelt like a womans name on the door list lol

Room 405. I still remember you being sat on the bed, with a face like :eeek: as 4, plus more female visitors piled into the room, doing girl stuff, wearing just little towels or undies... doing what girls do...
and then the re-run, post Munch, with the key going out the window to more people and the same said females back in undies and towels, only this time, more drunk, more noisy, more brave....
Do you remember Binxy scaring herself in the bathroom mirror? rotflmao and running round corridors from security?
:rotflmao:
Adopting a vanilla (?!) tranny at one of the Herts Tarts Munches....maybe Kit's birthday?? sitting outside in what goes down in Munch history as the best smoking area, ever, til stupid o'clock and then trying to smuggle her into the hotel :twisted:
81% :eeek:
It's a good job I was a bad girl in my teens because if I did that test based on the last 3 years I'd score a big fat 1%!
Within days of arrival here, I got hijacked by Marcuso, Dambuster and Sleazy. If it hadn't have been a 'protect the noob single bi fem' exercise (for which I remain eternally grateful) I guess that could have got pretty interesting .... lol
So kicking off the memories list then:
1. Meeting Eartchild in person for the first time, feeling real electricity, and watching Harry Jones slide slowly sideways down the wall. :lol:
2. Vodka Jelly
3. Vodka jelly in someone's kitchen, doing very questionable things with said vodka jelly including filling someone with it, then proceeding to eat it back out of her to the point of consuming that much of it I passed out for the rest of the evening, much to the amusement of those there.
4. Room Bars, and car bars
5. Last man standing
6. White Russians and hotel wing parties, which became almost as big as the Munch itself
7. Someone threatening to burn down said hotel unless the manager unlocked the bar-room in which everyones stash of alcohol was stored
8. Dancing with Sercher at the Mancs munch at which point the man became Godlike in my respect-list. (Don't think I wont continue to credit you for this, I haven't, and probably will never forget what you did for your friend that night worship)
9. Ah yes, the Jacuzzi at Chams, unwanted attention, and the near breaking of wandering fingers :lol:
10. Barrel Dancing :lol:
11. SH magazine smackbottom
there's so much more....will gather my thoughts, I kinda lost it by thinking about
No 1 :twisted:
It's very quiet around here, these days isn't it?
:gagged:
well, until tonight ....
Quote by Firelizard
Stormy says to give you a slap from him smackbottom:giggle:

Tell Stormy to f*@# right off, as usual rotflmao
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Quote by swing_fun_cpl
Off to ivestigate the smoking area :smoke: whilst Rubato goes to the bar :giggle:

kiss wave
and Firelizard! :rose:
get me, gone all nostalgic already!
Quote by MikeC
dark i always have a large one for you smile lol

what would you do if I said 'come on then' though MikeC? :lol:
bolt ??
Does anyone else feel really weird being back here? blink
best make mine a large one, for dutch courage more than drink of choice this eve! This place used to be my home...
:cheers: absent friends
:confused2: I am in a time warp! Even Mark's last log in here was only 81 days ago!! blink