Where do one night stands fit into all of this then?? Although I'm an old gezer now (49), as a young innnocent and not to mention shy, musician in the early 70's, I was shocked at what I witnessed and had access to, on a regular basis when I was suddenly thrown into the world of rock music and night clubs.
If you really want to pee me off very quickly, get a woman (sorry ladies) to tell me that "personality, getting to know the man and a genuine attraction to them is necessary before they can even start to desire sex with them". That may be the case for the odd woman, but she would be VERY ODD!
Female statements like that are absolute rubbish of the highhest order!!! I couldn't count the number of women who have claimed that claptrap within earshot of me, and then took the bloke she has just met straight to bed.
Blokes are usually honest on this one and admit they would be happy to have sex as long as there is a pulse.
I can feel my blood boiling.........