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DevonJoe
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 65

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Where do one night stands fit into all of this then?? Although I'm an old gezer now (49), as a young innnocent and not to mention shy, musician in the early 70's, I was shocked at what I witnessed and had access to, on a regular basis when I was suddenly thrown into the world of rock music and night clubs.
If you really want to pee me off very quickly, get a woman (sorry ladies) to tell me that "personality, getting to know the man and a genuine attraction to them is necessary before they can even start to desire sex with them". That may be the case for the odd woman, but she would be VERY ODD!
Female statements like that are absolute rubbish of the highhest order!!! I couldn't count the number of women who have claimed that claptrap within earshot of me, and then took the bloke she has just met straight to bed.
Blokes are usually honest on this one and admit they would be happy to have sex as long as there is a pulse.
I can feel my blood boiling......... mad
Thank you for your articulate contribution. Firstly we are talking the 1980's, the health club is no longer there but it would have been a mainstream one. Secondly, since I met her I never recall her ever suggesting we went together and I think she has only ever used one once since we met, at a hotel we stayed in.
Perhaps she was only there hoping to meet someone!
Thanks for the reply. The point is that as my wife is a total prude sexually with lots of hangups I am gobsmacked that it appears she put herself deliberately in the position where nude male bodies would be exposed to her!
Is there any chance that some health clubs insist that users remain clothed (in some way), if not I am totally gobsmacked!!
Thanks, I'm starting to get the picture. It seems that people do have the right to be naked if they wish? Would that be a fair comment? I would think most men take the opportunity am I right?
Anybody else got their experiences to add?
Thanks Joe
I appreciate your answer, but a naturist club is probably not the best example to answer my question. cheers
Hi everybody. Before she met me, my wife use to visit a reputable sauna on her own during the mixed sessions (because the timing suited her she says). Does any one on the forum have experience of these mixed sessions? Do you think people genuinely attend just for a sauna? Are towels place strategically, compulsory in a reputable sauna or is it up to the individual if they cover up?
As you can tell, I personally have no experience of a sauna and its not as if I am jealous, its just that she is normally such a prude in everything remotely sexual that i am conpletely baffled!! sad
Thanks for your help,
Joe