Just a free, single happy surfer type with an open mind, a few straightforward principles and morals, an attractive smile, a bigger than average cock and a rough idea of how to use it!

Dry sense of humour, emotionally intelligent, respectful and understanding... yet also confident, direct and seductive when in the mood.

I don't like things to feel grotty or mechanical and want to feel that I'm with friends. 

This isn't a frequent thing for me, maybe once or twice a year.  I have met with several couples before and had some mutually enjoyable experiences.  There was once a lady that used to come and see me on her own.  Her husband liked us to phone him at intervals, sometimes at the moment of penetration or orgasm - that was really exciting and I was pleased to play the role and have sex with such a hot older lady.  I like older women and I have had several older girlfriends in the past. There is something very sexy about an older woman who knows what she is doing and how to do it with style and grace.

I like to chat, I like to listen. I like an orgasm ratio of 3:1 in your favour, it turns me on.

I have been to a couple of fetish/swinger parties and managed to enjoy myself and not offend anyone. Actually what I really enjoy is the atmosphere and how friendly and sensitive people are, I guess in that environment there is just no point or need to pretend you are anyone that you are not!  I find it quite warming. Keen for more of that.

Looking forward to meeting you

DJ