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Dragons
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 60
0 miles · Surrey

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Hello all,
After much chatting in the bedroom, my wife has indicated that she might be interested in trying a MMF for the first time. We love each other very much, but want to try new things before we get too old and wrinky!! (Apologies to old and wrinkly members who will no doubt flame me. LOL)
However, we have some concerns that I thought I would ask you guys about:
It seems to us that there are potential risks involved. Obviously we would find a suitable male to invite, but what if one of us enjoys the experience and the other not? This could lead to tension within the relationship that neither of us want.
Does the woman have to form an emotional attachment to the new partner in order to enjoy the experience, or is it possible to keep it purely recreational? If not, this could also cause friction between us.
If it is enjoyable, and we want to repeat it, do we ask the same guy along or try someone new?
I suppose the question is: is it worth the risk?
Although ALL replies are welcomed, we would specifically like to hear from female members.
Thanks in anticipation...
TAnd you promise they can't be seen by anyone else on the site?
Thanks steph - I didn't know I could do that (told you I was newbie!). I'll go and give it a try now...
No - I understand where you're coming from. I am fairly new here and don't want evryone having access to me - until I am ready to give it.
Being able to upload a pic from my pc at the point of emailing an advert seems the best idea - but I can't.
Can I?
Well, I am a first time poster and have enjoyed reading this thread. I DO possess a webcam, and find that it can be used for both 'instant harmless gratification' and as a means for people to see each other before committing to meeting.
We all know how many men are out there pretending to be women - so a webcam chat puts my mind at rest...
Great site, btw... biggrin