I'm an intelligent professional, very fit, like to laugh, and have had just one sexual partner for the last 10 years. I'm told I'm attractive - but take a look at my pictures and decide for yourself - its a very subjective thing after all.

I'm happily married, but we know we have different appetites for sex. She likes once or twice a month and gets tired out after an hour or so whereas I like to play more frequently and for a long time.

I believe love and sexual fun are related but very different and we're not (all) built to be able to restrict ourselves to one partner when it comes to having fun. In fact indulging fantasies can enrich EVERY part of our lives and ALL our relationships. So thanks to a swinging couple I know in London, I find myself looking at the swinging scene (my other half will take a little more convincing!)

What do I like sexually? Well I'm open to trying anything twice - even if I didn't think I enjoyed it, I'll probably try it again, just in case I didn't get it right the first time!

I love giving pleasure (probably more than receiving it). I'm not into pain, but have had fun in the past with blindfolds, gentle restraint and teasing/tickling, toys and ice cubes. Equally I've enjoyed the simplest straight-up sex after lots of foreplay. I've got big strong hands, love to give massage and enjoy using my fingers and tongue to excite. I'm also one of that strange breed that doesn't necessarily feel penetration is everything. What's the harm in playing around and trying something without getting hung up on whether or not one, both, all of us climax? Not that I don't enjoy that too! lol.

I'll hold my hands up right now and say, yes I'm a lone male, new to the swinging scene, but that doesn't mean I'm a pushy guy or that I 'expect' anything. I'm here to explore a part of me that's curious about multiple partners and hopefully meet some nice folks along the way, even if that's just to chat online, so feel free to get in touch...I don't bite...more likely to laugh, lick or tickle!