We are a Finnish/Chinese married couple living between Thailand and Finland. We are sporty and educated and we pay attention to our looks. We like to combine travel and sex and are doing it increasingly. We are no hardcore swingers, but still slowly immersing into the lifestyle.

Prior to our marriage, he had group sex experience, she had none.  As a (somewhat traditional) Asian woman, she has already made a giant leap in stepping inside a swingers club, having sex with her husband in front of other people, and having received some male and female affection! We have a clear rule to proceed on her terms. She might be curious about receiving more affection from another woman, but she might not be ready to respond to this yet. As of August 2017 she maintains that kissing another woman is not a pleasure for her, so please help her feel at ease by not imposing this, thank you. She gladly welcomes some help from another female in performing oral to our he. She fantasises about 2-4 men, but time will tell if she will be ready to fulfill this fantasy, maybe with a nice couple or even with a nice man as a third wheel. Anyway - we have had very nice, relaxing and exciting experiences and will be back when we find the time :)

He is open for many things, but will strictly follow her feelings, so HE will follow HER orders for the time being )

We like people who are friendly, polite, respectful and tolerant. Just like we always aim to be. We are as concerned about your well being and good spirits as we hope you are of ours. We like people who have the empathy to understand what the words in our profile mean in real life and who approach us in a friendly manner.

We also like
- Respect and tolerance.
- People who are
  +/- 5 years the same age as we
  +/- 10 kg or so the same weight as we
- Travel. The seas and the mountains. Europe and Asia.
- Good food (Asian).
- Music and good mood.
- Sauna & lake (or pool) & relax.

We dislike:
- Demands, disrespect, arrogance
- Too little hair (up there)
- Too much hair (down there)
- Too much hair (everywhere else)
- Chubby / plump
- Unkempt people
- Intolerance

Currently hopping between Europe and Asia. Bangkok and Phuket coming up later in the summer 2018. Next, but yet unplanned: Amsterdam, somewhere in Germany, maybe Istanbul...?
Hope to see you soon!