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Firelizard
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 59
Straight Male, 62
UK

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Missy!!!!! :inlove: Long time no see! probably because I haven't been here! I just popped in to find my 40's haven't seen them have you!?dunno

Me and Stormwalker were hooked on the forum from the word go! The laughter and craziness was so addictive and then we got to meet the faces behind the words at munches and get togethers and it got even better. I still miss those days but have met some wonderful people whom I love to bits now :inlove:

Love that emot! haven't used it in ages :giggle:

and that one!

Quote by sandybeach1
We just went yesterday and this is what I can remember:
Braising steak diced
Reduced beef brisket
Shallots
Garlic
Various green leafy things (Stormy's gone all Paleo rolleyes)
Cheese
Brown bread
Rose wine
Red Wine
Smoked streaky bacon
Chestnut mushrooms
School shirts
Kids boxers
Socks
Clementines
Advocados
Goose fat
A tolet seat
A bathroom cabinet
and 7 of those items were for one recipe lol

Hope the toilet seat wasn`t one of them :eeek:
You can eat off my toilet seat now :smug:
We just went yesterday and this is what I can remember:
Braising steak diced
Reduced beef brisket
Shallots
Garlic
Various green leafy things (Stormy's gone all Paleo rolleyes)
Cheese
Brown bread
Rose wine
Red Wine
Smoked streaky bacon
Chestnut mushrooms
School shirts
Kids boxers
Socks
Clementines
Advocados
Goose fat
A tolet seat
A bathroom cabinet
and 7 of those items were for one recipe lol
Hugh Jackman and erm........well actually just him I spose! as once he got there there wouldn't be much cooking going on anyway :giggle:
Know what you mean Blue...it did feel a bit soulless in there but then that's probably because I haven't got the hang of it again yet wink
........I have mostly been in here for the first time in years and now my eyes are like this! :crazy:
Oooohhh I'v just been in the chatroom :eeek:
Very very scarey!!! just made me think of how it must have made the newbies feel back when I was trying to help in them. I felt like a fish out of water and couldn't even bring myself to say anything at all :giggle:
I'll have to start all over again now....maybe I'll resurrect the old forum chat room later? dunno
Watching River Cottage back to back smile a good dose of Hugh can make everything right with my world for a while......pure comfort viewing :inlove:
Quote by essex34m

my question really would be what made you guys move on when clearly you had so much fun here dunno

I found the swinging scene by accident. I had no idea of the experiences I would have, or the friendships I would make. I made no conscious effort to find the scene, I made no conscious effort to stop swinging. But as my signature says (You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave) I can't walk away.
The reason I can't walk away from the scene, is moments like this. Yes, it is tragically sad as to why some people are here posting again, but on Facebook I have friends and acquaintances from this scene, and they are why I can never leave. That link will always be there and even if there is no swinging occurring, the bond that ties is there.
And I suppose that while I am still around the scene, then the scene will be still around me, and I do still have some unfinished business with some people.
I already told you!!! I sent that tenner in the post flipa
Quote by Darkfire
It always signifies my slightly naughty side now redface

Over the years, Darkfire has almost become a separate character / personality in her own right. A full on alter-ego loon
It depends on mood, person, circumstance etc whether someone is playing with *insert real name here* or Dark. lol
Dark likes very different things, usually which need to have the lid put back on the box for a bit afterwards :twisted:
Originally Darkfire because I'm dark (and in most contexts: dark hair, dark eyes, dark humour, dark personality, dark side, dark arts and so it goes on....) and fiery (in attitude, temper, passionate in many facets including sexuality, opinions etc, so it all boiled down to that one name totally encapsulating 'me' as a person. I didn't pick it either, it was given to me, and was my coven name, many many moons ago, when I dabbled in other stuff.
dunno
I totally totally get this......I can't believe though that I got to this age before being able to know and then to trust someone else with the knowledge. As I said in another thread I got huge hints a few years back and I even think other online friends saw it in me well before I did blink
Quote by bluexxx
Blue, what's.'hettying'?

Vacuuming with the pink version of the "Henry" vacuum cleaner.
Hetty was a fiver cheaper than Henry when I bought her, for the same internal spec, and is much prettier
Ah now see! this might sort out your subconcious leanings ....there may be a subliminal message in there somewhere telling you how you like your suction dunno there's no end to my psychological talents :grin:
Quote by Freckledbird
I have lots of freckles and I'm a bird, as in female, not like a chicken because then I might have chosen Freckledchicken or Freckledhen or something smile

Awww I don't know! Freckledchick has a nice ring to it kiss
Quote by Darkfire

Washing - I do that once a week, fine... quite like pegging out actually, it seems so wonderfully retro

It is, isn't it! I went through a phase of loving retro, I have a Cath Kidston peg pinnyfor this very purpose blink lol
pegging washing out = is worth it for results of the fresh clean bed linen smell. Totally.
that's as domestic as I get though :lol:
:blink:rotflmao:rotflmao::rotflmao:
Quote by Darkfire
Having to nag Stormy to do everything! Gets right on my tits!!! innocent

send him over to me for ....training :twisted:
smackbottom Stormy, fancy making beautiful Firelizard have to nag you! *tuts*
You don't know how funny that is Dark lol While we've been away I've discovered a whole other side to Stormy that was always there but I hadn't grasped his really rather large hints redface
I always did say I was shit at signs :giggle: I could send him over but I don't think it's ironing that would get "done" :evil2:
Mine is from the little dragons in the Anne McCaffrey books......and it's been shortened over the years to Fire, Fliz and Liz. It always signifies my slightly naughty side now redface
Quote by Darkfire
:happy: oi oi!
Evening all wave Happy Anniversary Blue! kiss
:twisted:

Hello Dark One :inlove:
Quote by Paddy
There's wankers in every walk of life, it's not limited to chat rooms or forums.
It's how you deal with them that matters.
It's the weekend and I've had wine so I'm not going to contribute anything worthy to this thread other than if you change your attitude towards people who pick on you, they'll change theirs.

You just have contributed as an EX Chatroom OP! If my memory doesn't escape ! - Enjoy your Vino - if it's excessive - the consumption, then it's probably best if you don't post a reply until you're sober.
Oh shite.....I'm not allowed in here then? is that not a little chat op..ist?
If anyone who feels they are being bullied reports it.....it will be dealt with dunno
It seems to me that there is an influx of members who have been around for a few years and are back because of recent events. Since their return there are a few who are a little baffled by some of the posts, especially some of the older posts that have been brought back out for an airing. Instead of getting snotty about them :jagsatwork: and seeing a clique where none exists why not read through them and see what fun was had and then take a humourous leaf out of their book and inject some much needed humour yourselves? :notes:
It was great fun back then and it could be again. :bounce: A little less current affairs and a bit more bollox should sort it :silly:
Quote by bluexxx
I don't wear underwear, unless I'm going out.
Then I do, in case I get run over
blink

It doesn't matter what undies you have on when ya get run over in my experience......they'll still be brown after flipa
That's probably because you have actual boobs Earthy! unlike my small (but perfectly formed wink )protuberances that don't need any support as they are held up by any little breeze that happens to be passing :giggle:
Grey running leggings that haven't seen me run since last summer and a grey tee-shirt that says CITIES I :love:
NEW Y :love: RK
PARIS
L :love: NDON
I've never been to Paris!
AND!!! No bra! :eeek:
Mine's a large bacardi and coke, some carrott cake with lashings of cream (made with soft cheese) topping and some dairy milk :crazy:
I'm having a sweet day! ok flipa
Happy 'versary Blue! wave
I've been thinking about this a bit...on and off. We've left it behind since about 2007-8 I think. We didn't particularly mean to but life events sort of crept up on us and took over and then we moved away from here for abit because we lost our site mojo. We didn't go anywhere else either though so whether that helped to lock the door or not I don't know.
It's just recently that I've had the urge to look in again and for a while not a lot was happening but just recently I've recognised a few names from back in the day so I feel a bit more at home than a month or two ago. Although me and Stormy are very much together, he still hasn't found his posting boots and I'm very busy so appearances here may be sporadic. I'm definitely not saying never again as we had a great time with the ladies we met and maybe that will happen again, but I'm not curious anymore...I know what I like so at least thats the wondering out of the way :confused2:
Someone described mine quite eloquently today as ....A grey tunic and lorry drivers trousers! surpriseduch: