Come on tell me why no one has replied!
Graham
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Hi all, I'm not sure if this should be posted here or in the cafe?
I am a newbie and posted an ad about dogging in South Bucks. It was read by loads of members but not one offered advice on sites in the area. I scanned through other ads and it seemed to me that any other newbies seeking information on dogging also were read by hundreds but got little or no response.
Can someone tell me why that is? I am reluctant to say this but.... has it anything to do with experienced doggers not wishing to open up the experience? I am not wishing to insult anyone, I am just trying to understand if I and others are doing something wrong or misunderstanding the rules.
Hope someone can help.
Cheers
Graham
I am a newbie and posted an ad about dogging in South Bucks. It was read by loads of members but not one offered advice on sites in the area. I scanned through other ads and it seemed to me that any other newbies seeking information on dogging also were read by hundreds but got little or no response.
Can someone tell me why that is? I am reluctant to say this but.... has it anything to do with experienced doggers not wishing to open up the experience? I am not wishing to insult anyone, I am just trying to understand if I and others are doing something wrong or misunderstanding the rules.
Hope someone can help.
Cheers
Graham
Can anyone help with dogging locations in the South Bucks area. Slough up to Aylesbury, including Wycombe, Amersham, Chesham.....
Would love to give it a go but so far only found men parked in cars. If there are ladies or couples who would like to invite me that would be terrific. Worth a drink at least!
GH
Would love to give it a go but so far only found men parked in cars. If there are ladies or couples who would like to invite me that would be terrific. Worth a drink at least!
GH
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Whats the wife doing....I really must have a word. Can you do this Debbie?
Hi Jas,
I cannot say that I have been called any of these things directly. I am asking a question based upon what I read in ads posted by some ladies. The label(s) are specific, implied or perceived from these. I have no wish to insult anyone or categorise all, I am just baffled.
If a 50 year old married guy places an ad is it viewed in exactly the same way as a 50 year old married lady? In fact is any ad placed by a married man the same as a lady of any age? Is there any differance in the way an explicit ad is viewed if it is placed by a guy or gal?
GH
I cannot say that I have been called any of these things directly. I am asking a question based upon what I read in ads posted by some ladies. The label(s) are specific, implied or perceived from these. I have no wish to insult anyone or categorise all, I am just baffled.
If a 50 year old married guy places an ad is it viewed in exactly the same way as a 50 year old married lady? In fact is any ad placed by a married man the same as a lady of any age? Is there any differance in the way an explicit ad is viewed if it is placed by a guy or gal?
GH
I am a mature married guy on Swinging heaven looking for some NS fun. This is from what I can see similar to many other guys and gals. What is puzzling me is this handle many of us chaps get associated with....Pervs, Sickos, Weirdos and Dirty Old men. I know I don't see the replies some men sent the ladies, so there may well be a lots of these chaps around. I have also noted that this site is used by ladies and gentlemen of all ages, races, marital status, religions, sizes and sexual oriemtation. Lots of ads from both sexes state what it is they want to do or be done to them, sometimes in graphic detail. I can't for teh life of me understand why a guy who places and ad saying come and do this and that, or who replies to an ad asking for this and that saying 'Sure thing Baby I'll do....this for you' is classified in such a way. If the lady, young or old places a graphic ad or replies in detail about what she is prepared to do, how is she classified? Are all guys pidgeon holed as sickos and pervs? Are all guys over a certain age boxed as dirty old men?
I'm curious to know, how the ladies put the guys in yes, no, possible piles? How the guys pidgeon hole the ladies, if they do?
As I say I am a mature guy, married after some healthy fun. Does this make me a Perv, Sicko, Weirdo and Dirty Old Man all together?
GH
I'm curious to know, how the ladies put the guys in yes, no, possible piles? How the guys pidgeon hole the ladies, if they do?
As I say I am a mature guy, married after some healthy fun. Does this make me a Perv, Sicko, Weirdo and Dirty Old Man all together?
GH
