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GazSal
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 41
0 miles · Berkshire
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Warming the Bed
hi there
We are a young, attractive couple (check the profile ;) ) planning to make our first visit to a swinging club next weekend ( first weekend in june)
We are just wondering where would be best to go, and who is going where.. bit hesitant as its our first time, obviously :S
We were thinking of atlantis in stoke, as its just up the road from us but aslong as its got a train station we can go anywhere :)
We are a young, attractive couple (check the profile ;) ) planning to make our first visit to a swinging club next weekend ( first weekend in june)
We are just wondering where would be best to go, and who is going where.. bit hesitant as its our first time, obviously :S
We were thinking of atlantis in stoke, as its just up the road from us but aslong as its got a train station we can go anywhere :)
Warming the Bed
NWC, im sure that Mal is a respected member of the site, and as such has been given the benefit of the doubt, but I hope that you can see how his comments are not only unhelpful but also make the forum look bad.
Mal, can I ask why you are being so rude?
I don't have a problem with you, so why are you getting so defensive? I am not attacking, im trying to give some perspective here.
I can see exacly why FS was annoyed, and yes I'll admit, as I have above that I thought he overreacted, but there is no need for your continued baiting, your original post was poorly worded, pedantic and completely unhelpfull to the situation, infact it only served to take the thread off track.
Be the bigger man and walk away instead of bickering like a child.
Mal, can I ask why you are being so rude?
I don't have a problem with you, so why are you getting so defensive? I am not attacking, im trying to give some perspective here.
I can see exacly why FS was annoyed, and yes I'll admit, as I have above that I thought he overreacted, but there is no need for your continued baiting, your original post was poorly worded, pedantic and completely unhelpfull to the situation, infact it only served to take the thread off track.
Be the bigger man and walk away instead of bickering like a child.
Warming the Bed
Mal you are being completely out of line here and I hope the powers that be can see that.
I think fs made it quite clear in his response to you that he was letting people know he wasnt interested in any more guys, I also think it was quite clear what he was looking for (i.e. another couple and a single fem) whether gangbang is the right terminology or not I don't think anyone is actualy going to get confused by that.
Your only arguement is that, and its a bad one, the whole rest of this petty arguement stemmed from your first post which was rude and inconsiderate.
if you have a problem with the poster specificaly I suggest you take it to PM.
I think fs made it quite clear in his response to you that he was letting people know he wasnt interested in any more guys, I also think it was quite clear what he was looking for (i.e. another couple and a single fem) whether gangbang is the right terminology or not I don't think anyone is actualy going to get confused by that.
Your only arguement is that, and its a bad one, the whole rest of this petty arguement stemmed from your first post which was rude and inconsiderate.
if you have a problem with the poster specificaly I suggest you take it to PM.
Warming the Bed
Quote by sheddy
...and if i do stand up for myself i get a further bashing.
Not really but your choice of words gets a blasting try putting forward a simple well worded response instead of a post litterd with insults and fowl language.
Although I can see both sides, I do agree with this.. it must be a bit of a shock seing the thread take this turn, but it would be better to be reasonable than to shout the odds.
No offence meant by that btw.
Warming the Bed
don't get me wrong, we would love to go to a meet, and im sure in time we will.. but in a high pressure situation where you have to try and make conversation and get on with the poeple infront of you (as aposed to be able to wander orund and chat to lots of people) its easier with people in the same age bracket..
Drexx.. lol on the penis size..
Drexx.. lol on the penis size..
Warming the Bed
Wwhile age IS just a number.. I don't think anyone can be accused of being ageist for wanting to socialise with thier own crowd..
From our perspective, meets where the bulk of those attending are closer to the ages of our parents than ourselves can be a little off putting, not based on attraction or anthing like that, just because we generaly don't socialise with people of that age and would maybe fel uncomfortable in that situation.
Complaining and being pedantic over terminology is not the way to break boundaries, infact it only seves to strengthen them.
From our perspective, meets where the bulk of those attending are closer to the ages of our parents than ourselves can be a little off putting, not based on attraction or anthing like that, just because we generaly don't socialise with people of that age and would maybe fel uncomfortable in that situation.
Complaining and being pedantic over terminology is not the way to break boundaries, infact it only seves to strengthen them.
Warming the Bed
bunch of wingers!
How are young people meant to get into the whole thing if you make it difficult, attacking someone over terminology in a thread like this is just rude!
We have contacted the couple about this as it seems the kind of thing we are interested in, many of the other topics are daunting to ourselves as most of those posting are much older than us and much more experienced, Its shocking to find that even in a thread thats asking for younger people there are still people making it seem all that more daunting.*
Sorry for the rant there.. just got in from a gig, bit wired..
*The forum, not the activities ;)
How are young people meant to get into the whole thing if you make it difficult, attacking someone over terminology in a thread like this is just rude!
We have contacted the couple about this as it seems the kind of thing we are interested in, many of the other topics are daunting to ourselves as most of those posting are much older than us and much more experienced, Its shocking to find that even in a thread thats asking for younger people there are still people making it seem all that more daunting.*
Sorry for the rant there.. just got in from a gig, bit wired..
*The forum, not the activities ;)
Warming the Bed
Are there any young couples around the staffordshire area interested in meeting up tonight / tomorow??
Myself and Sal have taken the weekend off work and are looking for some company, unfortunatly we lost most of today in the pub (after putting our ad up this morning and forgetting to ad a picture, DOH!) so havnt been able to arrange anything as of yet.
Single females welcome, single males feel free to get in touch, but we wont be needing you at present ;)
Myself and Sal have taken the weekend off work and are looking for some company, unfortunatly we lost most of today in the pub (after putting our ad up this morning and forgetting to ad a picture, DOH!) so havnt been able to arrange anything as of yet.
Single females welcome, single males feel free to get in touch, but we wont be needing you at present ;)
Warming the Bed
Quote by bluexxx
What do you do in the week, apart from sitting infront of the tv?
Errrrrrrrrrrrr, sit in front of the PC
At the moment thats not really much use due to not having any chairs.. or a desk.. im sitting on the floor at the moment
Roll on payday so I can furnish this damn house!
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I work in the week.. - , my partner is home in the day, but works weekend nights in a bar.
When I get home, im fairly tired, but she's bored and wants entertaining.. so im looking for ideas...
What do you do in the week, apart from sitting infront of the tv?
oh.. cash is a little tight this month, so money saving suggestions would be welcomed!
When I get home, im fairly tired, but she's bored and wants entertaining.. so im looking for ideas...
What do you do in the week, apart from sitting infront of the tv?
oh.. cash is a little tight this month, so money saving suggestions would be welcomed!
Warming the Bed
Quote by freckledbird
GazSal does it matter what the average age of a swinger is, if you're looking for a particular age group? . Your last comment about a person's age showing in their body, plus your initial post saying that you seek people of about your own age, seems to indicate that you are indeed looking for younger 's not a criticism, just an observation. Just search for that age group in the ads.
Average age of a swinger was just a topic title, I dont think it matters no..
I was looking more for a discussion about why people of certain ages are into swinging and others arent, my comment above was pretty flippant based on the notion that "you are only as old as you feel" which I think is quite silly.
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When I first got online, when I was about 13ish I spent alot of time on Mirc, in the days before MSN messenger.. before ICQ even..
Used to recieve pics, and cyber with older women.. I can only assume it was older women, it could have been anyone for all I knew.. wouldnt have mattered though, at that point it was just about the words on the screen.
Didnt bother with it at all after that till I split up with my girlfriend years later and started chatting alot to a girl I met online..
I wouldnt say it was sad really.. got quite close to her and we ended up spending a weekend together, had some amazing sex.. and left it at that.. after the curiosity of what it would be like when we were finaly together had passed, we both lost interest.
Used to recieve pics, and cyber with older women.. I can only assume it was older women, it could have been anyone for all I knew.. wouldnt have mattered though, at that point it was just about the words on the screen.
Didnt bother with it at all after that till I split up with my girlfriend years later and started chatting alot to a girl I met online..
I wouldnt say it was sad really.. got quite close to her and we ended up spending a weekend together, had some amazing sex.. and left it at that.. after the curiosity of what it would be like when we were finaly together had passed, we both lost interest.
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Id say its more likely that a couple that have been together for a while would be into swinging than a new couple, but i wouldnt say younger people are still finding thier feet or exploring new things nessesarily..
Id say Ive explored most things, including swinging..
Id also say there are more people who are coupled up when they are in thier 30s than in thier 20s, id also say that the swinging scene is quite daunting to those who are younger, as by looking on sites such as this most of the adds are from those in thier 30's and 40's.
Nothing against older people, I just think most people in their 20's would find the idea of meeting a more experienced couple quite intimidating, I know I certainly do.
Id say Ive explored most things, including swinging..
Id also say there are more people who are coupled up when they are in thier 30s than in thier 20s, id also say that the swinging scene is quite daunting to those who are younger, as by looking on sites such as this most of the adds are from those in thier 30's and 40's.
Nothing against older people, I just think most people in their 20's would find the idea of meeting a more experienced couple quite intimidating, I know I certainly do.
Warming the Bed
Thanks for the replies
not really ageist, would not say no to meeting most ages, but obviously would prefer people our age, into the same kinds of stuff as us.
I would be interesting to talk to other people our age who use the forum who have attented munchs and know how things work etc..
not really ageist, would not say no to meeting most ages, but obviously would prefer people our age, into the same kinds of stuff as us.
I would be interesting to talk to other people our age who use the forum who have attented munchs and know how things work etc..
Warming the Bed
Hi,
First post, im gaz, nice to meet you ;)
Myself and Sal are in our early twenties, and were both interested in groupsex before we got together, so now we are looking to explore together.
Idealy we are looking to find peolpe our age, that we can firstly go out with, get on with.. and then take it further..
It seems hard to find anyone who is our age, it seems most people are around 30ish..
Is it that there are less younger people into this kind of thing, or is it more that there is less of an established community because younger people tend to already have wider social circles and may be more open with each other?
First post, im gaz, nice to meet you ;)
Myself and Sal are in our early twenties, and were both interested in groupsex before we got together, so now we are looking to explore together.
Idealy we are looking to find peolpe our age, that we can firstly go out with, get on with.. and then take it further..
It seems hard to find anyone who is our age, it seems most people are around 30ish..
Is it that there are less younger people into this kind of thing, or is it more that there is less of an established community because younger people tend to already have wider social circles and may be more open with each other?
