Never quite sure what to write here without sounding absurdly self obsessed, so here goes!

I'm a 36 year old single male (groan!) living in my own flat in South West London. I would not say that I'm an experienced swinger by any means; more somebody that is growing increasingly intrigued by the lifestyle. I've very recently come out of a long relationship and have no interest in another one (right now), but similarly am not interested in a series of one night stands.

What would be ideal for me would be a "friends with benefits" situation - if that doesn't sound too naff / cliched. Ideally somebody that I could spend an evening in a nice bar or restaurant with, as well as an evening misbehaving in bed / shower / nudist beach lol!

My favourite things are giving oral and massages and I actually trained as a masseur so you're in safe hands!

Would be great to hear from ladies or couples in London and Devon (where I spend many weekends!)

Giles xx