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Helenandhim
1 week ago
Straight Female, 62
Straight Male, 63
0 miles · Essex
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OOOOOOOOOOooooooooo Add us please we will be there in all our finery lol 
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Quote by Mike_in_London
i see eurekas as a naturist place which welcomes swingers, ive been to eurekas twice now and love both times, my partner and i really do love the calm relaxed party vibe u get from there. the new dancing pole helps as well lol, a group of us will be goin again prob on the social for some good times, maybe u should dip ya toes in at the next social so there is even less pressure to play but more time to have fun
Just to let you know that although Eureka is a naturist place, if you plan to go on a party night then the rules are very much relaxed and it is clothing optional with most people dressed, the ladies are usually in sexy lingerie. The pole is not put out on a Saturday night as the club gets so busy - usually about 200 plus - that it takes up valuable space on the dance floor. It is by no means new lol it was there the first time we went and that was 4 years ago lol.
I would suggest that you go to a swinging heaven social there for your first visit, these are always held on Friday nights, usually once a month, and you will be welcomed and probably bump into names you will recognise from this site. That is always a nice ice breaker. The atmosphere is very friendly and there is a lot of work taking place, and planned for the future to update the whole club. The newly refurbished private rooms are very tasteful now and the couples room is a whole lot more user friendly than it used to be lol.
As you can tell we do love the place as it is as much a good fun night club as a swinging club and, I feel it is ideal for a newbie couples first visit to any club. You can take your swinging at your own rate and enjoy yourselves without feeling pressured.
Whatever you choose I do hope you enjoy your clubbing fun
Helen and Him xxxxxxxx
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Well you lucky, lucky people we wish that we had been able to come. I am sure it was a wonderful evenin and wonderful hosts. We would have loved to attend but sadly a bit far for us. We know that gold and silver are the best hosts ever and as Shad as already said they go out of there way to make all feel welcome and relaxed.
We are glad you all had a nice evening and we were thinking of you all.
Lots of love from your southerner friends (the ones without the accents) lol lol
Helen and Mark xxxxxxxxxxxx
We are glad you all had a nice evening and we were thinking of you all.
Lots of love from your southerner friends (the ones without the accents) lol lol
Helen and Mark xxxxxxxxxxxx
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Just to add my two pennerth for what it is worth, I think that swinging is a frame of mind and mostly and "open" frame of mind. There are, and always will be, some singles - both male and female - who will give the single person a bad name in this scene. I have seen many many singles who think that swinging is just an easy way to get a shag without any ties. However the true swinging single has the ability to be discrete, and understanding of the wants and needs of the people they swing with. They are truely non-judgemental and generally have good manners!
I also think that those that behave normally and respect peoples boundaries are those that last in this scene. The rest get what they deserve!!!
I also think that those that behave normally and respect peoples boundaries are those that last in this scene. The rest get what they deserve!!!
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We have been dogging now for quite a few years and I have to say that it is never ever too cold for dogging.
We find that the cold tends to deter the "idiots" and there is far more fun to be had, only the dedicated go out in the frost and ice and usually the gentlemen doggers. There is nothing more sexy than shagging over the warm bonnet of a car on an icy night lol. We have been out in all weathers and the worst is rain it really does spoil the moment lol. I tend to wear a nice big full length puffy coat and very little else!!
Give it a go, you never know you might have the best night ever!
We find that the cold tends to deter the "idiots" and there is far more fun to be had, only the dedicated go out in the frost and ice and usually the gentlemen doggers. There is nothing more sexy than shagging over the warm bonnet of a car on an icy night lol. We have been out in all weathers and the worst is rain it really does spoil the moment lol. I tend to wear a nice big full length puffy coat and very little else!!
Give it a go, you never know you might have the best night ever!
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That would have been in 1977 in my bedroom dreaming of Donny Osmond or maybe David Essex.
Which is best Honey or Golden Syrup?
Which is best Honey or Golden Syrup?
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Just to say a huge thank you to Deal or no Deal for arranging another brilliant night. It was lovely to see so many new faces from this site. A brilliant night all around and so many people there too (Must have been over a hundred from SH) A brilliant night all round great fun, great music, great venue, great people what more can I say
Thanks again Helen and Mark xxxxxxxxx
Thanks again Helen and Mark xxxxxxxxx
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Woooooooooooooo Hoooooooooooooooooo we are actually off work so definitely add us to the list. I am dusting off my posh frock as we speak and Him has his black tie out already. Nothing else just his black tie :shock:
Helen and Mark xxxxxxxx
Helen and Mark xxxxxxxx
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Pay day when you have spent a week being skint!
Being held in the strong arms of the man I love and smelling his skin and knowing that he loves me too!
Talking to my daughter who works abroad and hearing her say "love you loads Mum"
Oh and Peanut Butter on thick toast mmmmmmmm
Being held in the strong arms of the man I love and smelling his skin and knowing that he loves me too!
Talking to my daughter who works abroad and hearing her say "love you loads Mum"
Oh and Peanut Butter on thick toast mmmmmmmm
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I thought I would have a quick look through the posts on the forum, saw this, and just had to add my little bit for what its worth. I have been a member of SH for a long time now and have several good friends who I have met up with and meet socially still. One man in particular was a good chat friend on here at a time when I needed one. After 9 months of chatting we finally met up at a SH social 2 weeks later he moved in!!!
We still have the divorces to sort out but we are busy saving for the wedding day!
What can I say but thank you to SH, 3 years down the line we are still together and so happy you would not believe. Not only do we live together we are bestest ever friends. bestest ever lovers , happy swingers and whats more we work together too so we are totally together 24/7 and our lives could simply not be happier.
I have to say that we were neither of us looking for love just some fun times maybe thats why we got on so well we were neither of us desperate just getting on as friends was enough. So for those singles out there dont give up carry on having fun and you just never know what is around the corner!!!
We still have the divorces to sort out but we are busy saving for the wedding day!
What can I say but thank you to SH, 3 years down the line we are still together and so happy you would not believe. Not only do we live together we are bestest ever friends. bestest ever lovers , happy swingers and whats more we work together too so we are totally together 24/7 and our lives could simply not be happier.
I have to say that we were neither of us looking for love just some fun times maybe thats why we got on so well we were neither of us desperate just getting on as friends was enough. So for those singles out there dont give up carry on having fun and you just never know what is around the corner!!!
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Me me me me me I am coming too !!!!!!
Party on!!!!!!!!!!
xXxXxXx
Party on!!!!!!!!!!
xXxXxXx
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Our shifts have finally worked out well and we can come to this one can you add us to the list please and two for the bar-b-cue too ta
Loves ya both loads xxxxxxxx
Loves ya both loads xxxxxxxx
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Hello all, despite him going on that we are working and can't come he is soooooooooo wrong so we will be there if thats ok lol
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I know you have us down as medic but put me down as well then we both get badges lol
Helen xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Helen xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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We are so floored by the news. Allan was the heart and soul of Eureka and great fun with his own unique sense of humour! He will be greatly missed by us all, he was one of life's larger than life characters and most certainly Eureka will never be the same without him.
Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family, children and all his close friends.
Rest in Peace Allan xXx
Helen and Mark
Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family, children and all his close friends.
Rest in Peace Allan xXx
Helen and Mark
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can we come please can we come we are actually not working this weekend
Love ya loads
Mark and Helen xXx
Love ya loads
Mark and Helen xXx
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sooooooooooooooo sorry but due to work medic and I cant make it now but will be at the next one xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Please please add us we loved the last one and an swinging heaven at eureka without us just cannot happen lol
Helen and Mark xxxx
Helen and Mark xxxx
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Hi there
We would love to come along as well, can you add us to the list please
Helen and Mark xxxxxxxxxx
We would love to come along as well, can you add us to the list please
Helen and Mark xxxxxxxxxx
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Hi All
Can you add us two too please its been a long while since we were able to make a social
love'n'stuff
Helen and Mark
Can you add us two too please its been a long while since we were able to make a social
love'n'stuff
Helen and Mark
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bi couple we didnt mean to say you were odd lol maybe see you out and about soon xxx
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OK Ok so where are all you Essex couples hiding?? We are often out in the Southend area and would love to meet up with other couples but rarely if ever see any. There are always plenty of single guys so there is no need for us to advertise for them. But, if there ever were any couples, they seem to have deserted the site that we go to. Would love to know if there is anywhere else about that other couples go to so we could join you for a bit of fun.
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Damn and blast it all. I am just so unsure of where I fit into this criteria. I am blonde ish! But it is out of a bottle and would normally be mousey brown. I am not quite a 12 but a passable size 14. We do always wait our turn and honestly dont flash our headlights at anyone. Perhaps you could advise the best night for us to go out. We have tried Friday and Saturday nights but it always seems that we dont quite get it right. Never anyone about apart from us and obviously the men feel a bit sorry for us and watch us just to make us feel a bit better. So do I qualify for Tuesday night or Thursday night. If the answer is neither then perhaps you could suggest the best night for us so that we can wait our turn and do this dogging thing in the correct manner.
Also could you please advise the new address for the Membership Secretary of the Group of National Associations of Doggers (GONADS for short) so that we can renew our membership and recieve our monthly mag. Our previous application appears to have been lost in the post.
Many thanks for your assistance
Helen and the Medic xXx
Also could you please advise the new address for the Membership Secretary of the Group of National Associations of Doggers (GONADS for short) so that we can renew our membership and recieve our monthly mag. Our previous application appears to have been lost in the post.
Many thanks for your assistance
Helen and the Medic xXx
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Hi there,
Put us down as definites we loved the last one and can't wait to see Tinksy2 careering down that tube again!! Loved the one potato two potato game too. Will it be fancy dress again??? Let us know more details about the Caravans too, home from home !!!
H & H xXx
Put us down as definites we loved the last one and can't wait to see Tinksy2 careering down that tube again!! Loved the one potato two potato game too. Will it be fancy dress again??? Let us know more details about the Caravans too, home from home !!!
H & H xXx
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A big big thank you Tony and Tulip for a great night, I havent laughed so much for ages and everyone was brilliant. Shame we cant manage another meet before February but definitely count Medic and I in on the next one. It was so nice to meet up with other folks just relax, let your hair down and be kids again for a night and thanks to all who made it such fun
H & H xxx
H & H xxx
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Dogging is dead??? Says who??? You are definitely going to the wrong places we have fun at least twice a week in Essex so not sure where you are going or how you approach people but I can certainly say that it is alive and well for us and the guys who have watched/joined us 
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Hi there,
Please put my name on the list too Tony. I just have to come to keep an eye on you all
Will there be dancing this time as well then?? Love to shake my bootie
H & H xXx
Please put my name on the list too Tony. I just have to come to keep an eye on you all
Will there be dancing this time as well then?? Love to shake my bootie H & H xXx
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Steve u should check your emails m8 lol, i have now sent twice lol
