A mature man who understands courtesy and the lasting power of good manners. To me everyday is an opportunity to exact more fun from life and it would be even more fun to share these opportunities with a wholesome woman or couple who has a brain, an open, enquiring, mind, and a libido that can accommodate, equally, gentleness and wild spontaneity. A woman or couple who do not take themselves, or the absurdities of life, too seriously, and is primarily seeking, NSA fun times. Yeah ok, maybe a little on the mature side. Don't underestimate the experience and passion of us older players.