SINGLE MEN, we are NOT looking for you.  However if you are bi, black, and Dom do please approach otherwise please don't.  Now having got that out of the way......

Lady A and her sub, subt are back after a short enforced break from SH.  Let’s start with the non-negotiables as if they don’t suit you there is no point your reading any further.  There are two.  Firstly we are in this together, we do not meet alone, even if during a meet one of us sits quietly in the corner we will still be there together.  Secondly if either of us are penetrated we are penetrated safely….end of!

Moving on now to our ‘beliefs’ - there are several.  To us age is just a number, attitude of mind, broad-mindedness, and a willingness to have fun are way more important.  We will never exclude any approach on the basis of age so don’t be shy. Another important belief we have picked up is that pushiness is never ever attractive, you have been warned.  We have come to learn that for us subness and Dom(me)ness are opposite ends of a long spectrum.  That means that whilst Lady A is usually very Domme, and subt is usually very sub, we both can (and do) vary our position along that line according to how we are feeling and who we are with. So what are we looking for…..well we are open to most things really as long as all parties are willing and nobody is harmed we will try almost anything.  We are both very curious when it comes to bi-ness.  We are never quite sure when you stop being bi-curious and change to simply being bi, but the fact that we have had those thoughts should tell you something!  We prefer to meet couples, preference given to those with similar tastes and a willingness for everybody to play with everybody. We would absolutely love to meet a sub bi female - there is no harm in shooting for the stars!  Neither of us are into excessive body hair and it helps hugely if you are reasonably local too! When you do contact us please don’t use text speak.  We do understand how some categories of membership mean that you can only do the ‘I really like your profile….’ thing, so if that’s you please make sure there is something of interest in said profile!  We are not into protracted e-mailing and if we meet let’s  get the pleasantries over with quickly and get down and dirty with minimal delay, we none of us have joined this site to discuss the weather!  Look forward to meeting some of you soon.

PLEASE NO RANDOM FRIEND REQUESTS - this seems to be a hard one for people to grasp!

AND ANOTHER THING......cannot believe we need to spell this out, but it seems we do.  If you are in the chat room and it says HnM2016(subt) then it's sub t the male chatting, if it says HnM2016(Lady A) then it's Lady A the female chatting, if it says HnM2016 then it's both of us, glad we've cleared that up!