Hello, and thank you very much for dropping in. I’m 36, boyish-looking, 5’7”, size 18-20 with an athletic frame and fitter than I look. I have some body issues, mainly due to my weight and some surgical scarring on my chest. I’m your archetypal tomboy, about as far removed from short skirts, stockings and stilettos as you can get. I’m far more at home in jeans and a t-shirt, although I can stretch to trousers and a blouse for the office.

I’m shy, honest (you’ve hopefully picked that up by now), responsible, professional (at work) and sensible. That said, when I am relaxed and comfortable I am genuine, tactile and have a quiet humour. I swim and gym, enjoy watching football and most sports, reading and camping/the outdoors.

Do I know what I’m looking for here? Probably not… I’m in a spot – I love my girlfriend but we are not intimate. I am not exclusively into girls but I suspect I may be a little more adventurous in my head than I am in a real-life situation. Therefore please don’t think me a tease if I flirt hard and then seem reluctant to take it to the next level. I may get so far and get cold feet. I am here to work some stuff out for myself – if being a part of that interests you, then please read on. If it doesn’t, please move on with my best wishes. By way of reassurance that I am genuine about what I am saying, I did meet for a drink with a guy I met on here about a year or so ago. He was friendly, professional, and had an exceptionally naughty streak. We talked and connected and agreed to meet up again. Unfortunately he had to withdraw for personal reasons, and I guess I lost my nerve a little after that so have been “dark” for a while. But I do know that I was very turned on by him and the thought of something more. Whilst that’s no guarantee that I will take it up to the next level, it’s the best reassurance I can give.

I have strict boundaries which I would hope you will respect, and you can expect the same in return. I love sex, the slow sensual kind and the fast, furious kind, depending on the mood. I have never climaxed at anyone’s hands except my own – I guess that means you would need to be quite patient – and up for a challenge! I like to give and receive oral, love fingering and masturbation, and have had little success with anal in the past but that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t go there with the right person. I would consider a threesome, although please refer to earlier “adventurous” comment. Off limits: pain, watersports, poo, videos. Off limits means off limits, just to be clear.

You – clean, fit or fit-ish, larger build for choice (although slim is fine providing you’re into bigger girls), preferably not too hairy. Patient, sensitive, and in it for mutual pleasure, not just your own. Capable of holding a conversation or just getting down and dirty, wherever the chemistry takes us. Intimate photos welcome. I have a face photo which I will share when I am comfortable and not before. Likewise the naughty photos, but please don’t hassle me. I work full-time in Birmingham and have a girlfriend to keep happy at home, so opportunities to meet up are limited but can be arranged.

I have put quite a lot of effort into being honest and detailed in my profile. Contacts that do likewise increase their chances of catching my eye. Thanks again for taking the time to read about me, and good luck finding what you’re looking for. Who knows – maybe that’ll be me!