I'm James, from South Africa, just move to the UK, I have been in the lifestyle for a few years now and have had some wonderful experiences and some not so wonderful. I'm 44 years old and look after myself pretty well and expect the same. I'm into rugby, mountainbiking and of some adulterous  no strings attached fun with couples and single ladies. Open Soft swing, full swing, massages. I’m also on the SA site so feel to have a look there too!