'bout time someone told you......you tie it exactly like a shoe lace. Just when you are pulling the bows though work to get them to fold at the nawwowest part. Best to practice first with it around your thigh then around your neck. It's much easier than it looks to do a basic knot then just needs fiddling with.
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Guess the world is made up of givers, takers and those in between...just a shame you cant tell what someone is just by looking.
It's bad enough on ebay and you're not playing with anyones emotions on ebay. Figure it will always be a downer when you realise you have been asked to give more than you have received.
It's bad enough on ebay and you're not playing with anyones emotions on ebay. Figure it will always be a downer when you realise you have been asked to give more than you have received.
Am feeling kinda responsible for this as I postedthe thread about dumb idea. My point was whether anyone in my local area was willing to meet just to chat....no play to check out that I was who I said I was and see face to face how I behaved. Why did I wonder about this? Because I also know how many people out there are answering ads just for kicks without any real thought that they are mailing real people.
Reading the thread it seems to me that it has stirred up a lot of negativity and remembered bad feeling. For that I am sorry.
My frustration is that I truly am an open guy, true to his word but trying to get noticed in a medium that is deep in deception and half-truths.
Shame that we live in an age when trusting someone is a risk.
J
Reading the thread it seems to me that it has stirred up a lot of negativity and remembered bad feeling. For that I am sorry.
My frustration is that I truly am an open guy, true to his word but trying to get noticed in a medium that is deep in deception and half-truths.
Shame that we live in an age when trusting someone is a risk.
J
Oh damn I'm going to be serious again.
Society has changed now that we are more mobile and work is less secure. We are by nature pack animals or at leat tribal but now we spend our time disconnected from extended family, long term friends and thier extended family so we show the behaviour of lone pack animals skirting through the the territory of others. Hence the confusion over rules of etiquette. Have been major studies on global cities on this. Always interesting to see a teacher walk through a group of kids in town. Confidence and "aura!" show.
The distrurbing side of this is that the solution is that you should walk your territory and pee on every landmark. Make it your territory then others will default to your way of doing things but this could be quite scary in a supermarket/department store and liable to arrest!!!!
Society has changed now that we are more mobile and work is less secure. We are by nature pack animals or at leat tribal but now we spend our time disconnected from extended family, long term friends and thier extended family so we show the behaviour of lone pack animals skirting through the the territory of others. Hence the confusion over rules of etiquette. Have been major studies on global cities on this. Always interesting to see a teacher walk through a group of kids in town. Confidence and "aura!" show.
The distrurbing side of this is that the solution is that you should walk your territory and pee on every landmark. Make it your territory then others will default to your way of doing things but this could be quite scary in a supermarket/department store and liable to arrest!!!!
I find most single men will say whatever u want 2 hear to get in the club with u but once ur inside its another story
Oh that is so depressing!!!! What hope do I have? That's just not how it should be. People are with people for lots of reasons but it should never be as a quick fix or short cut. Hate lack of reapect.
<---- getting down from soap box now
I find most single men will say whatever u want 2 hear to get in the club with u but once ur inside its another story
Oh that is so depressing!!!! What hope do I have? That's just not how it should be. People are with people for lots of reasons but it should never be as a quick fix or short cut. Hate lack of reapect.
<---- getting down from soap box now
Ok so I am a guy looking for a swinging partner or couple for what I think is termed a discrete relationship. Trouble is it is a very competitive market place!!!! Would any swinging couple in notts that are known on the board be prepared to meet me just for a drink and chat so they could actually know what I was like. I always think honesty and sincerity are shown in the eyes which makes it tough on the boards. I am willing to travel in notts for the meet and happy to meet simply to vouch for my personality and attitude. Just feel I need/want the extra dimension of swinging in my life. I like the intimacy that is shown on the board and that is more head based than body action. Maybe if someone else in the area was willing to say "yeah met him, he's a good guy" my genuine level would be better on the board.
If this is just a dumb idea then there's no need to tell me so. I don't think this is how it works but it's how I would want it to work. I think there is more that is positive about me than I can ever reflect in a board message. Also if the feed back is that I am a sad, needy guy to avoid then I'll just wander off and lick my wounds! Would rather know though.
Just in case I've just dropped the lighted match in the deep pool of petrol at my feet I'd say thanks to everyone that has made me feel welcome enough to ask.
Jez
XOXO
If this is just a dumb idea then there's no need to tell me so. I don't think this is how it works but it's how I would want it to work. I think there is more that is positive about me than I can ever reflect in a board message. Also if the feed back is that I am a sad, needy guy to avoid then I'll just wander off and lick my wounds! Would rather know though.
Just in case I've just dropped the lighted match in the deep pool of petrol at my feet I'd say thanks to everyone that has made me feel welcome enough to ask.
Jez
XOXO
Having been on the interview board a lot of times then I'd say the important part is to look smart but concentrate on being you. Be communicative. Don't just answer the questions but let the board see what you think, interact with them. Try to relax. If it helps think of yourself as part of the team. Next time give me more warning....there's lots that will help but night before is pushing it.
Final point is that you are interviewing them as much as they are you.
Good luck.
XOXO
Final point is that you are interviewing them as much as they are you.
Good luck.
XOXO
LOL..no.
But whenever I broke up with a girl (or she broke up with me) I was never let off their Mum's handy young man list! There are scores of happy husbands across the land that when asked to do a job for the in law ask we she doesn't call that old boy friend...am seriously going wrong somewhere!!!!!
But whenever I broke up with a girl (or she broke up with me) I was never let off their Mum's handy young man list! There are scores of happy husbands across the land that when asked to do a job for the in law ask we she doesn't call that old boy friend...am seriously going wrong somewhere!!!!!
LMAO..... you'll be laughing even more when she tells you all about the nice young man that ran out of sugar and was persuaded to cut the grass, mind the cat, fix the tv ariel, assemble the ward robe and drives her friends to bingo...... not going near....mothers exploit me!!!!
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:roll: LOL...hate to be informed on this but it is apparently to do with the links between left and right brain. Seems according to the pros that women's brains have many more connections between the left and the right side which in fact gives them better potential at communication. However a downside is that it seems to affect their spatial awareness. Though women can have good spatial awareness the genetic tendency is for a males to be better (Note I said tendency not always). Some have argued that this is linked to the males hunting past but that point is not really accepted by anyone who has been chased the a bunch of lioness' from a local pride! Actually know some great female map readers but it is just less likely that women will have picked up map reading as something they enjoy and so got better at. Also explains (with the communication bit) why they are so much keener to ask someone.
In one study it was found that when asked most men actually knew where North was even when in unfamiliar settings (ie they hadn't neen told before which was North) without having to work it out, where as women had to work it out. Someone tried this on me before they told me about this and I was amazed to find that actually I did know even though I would bet money on not having a clue!
Also interestingly women have a wider field of view which than us men. Men tend to have quite a narrow view which is irritating on two fronts. 1. We can be hunting for hours in a cupboard and the woman will just glance at it and see what we were looking for. (Guys if you've lost something it is worth asking women to have a look for you. As we get more stressed, ie where the hell are the car keys?, our field of view actually narrows!!) 2. Women can eye up a person without having to turn their head where as we tend to turn the whole head to improve our field of view thus giving ourselves away and at least earning a poke in the ribs. which also now means when you walk passed an attractive person you'll be wondering if she did eye them but and be irritated as hell that she might have done even though she didn't move her head. But at least that explains why women are so much better at reading the street signs.
There's a couple of good books on this...Men are from mars and women are from venus and Why Men don't Listen and Women can't Read Maps.
Recently read on the bbc news web site that SATNAV systems are improving family holidays as more familys go out to new places with SATNAV because they don't end up having a steaming row when lost!!
Ok this is the point where I realise I'm going on too much....just love all this psychology stuff!
In one study it was found that when asked most men actually knew where North was even when in unfamiliar settings (ie they hadn't neen told before which was North) without having to work it out, where as women had to work it out. Someone tried this on me before they told me about this and I was amazed to find that actually I did know even though I would bet money on not having a clue!
Also interestingly women have a wider field of view which than us men. Men tend to have quite a narrow view which is irritating on two fronts. 1. We can be hunting for hours in a cupboard and the woman will just glance at it and see what we were looking for. (Guys if you've lost something it is worth asking women to have a look for you. As we get more stressed, ie where the hell are the car keys?, our field of view actually narrows!!) 2. Women can eye up a person without having to turn their head where as we tend to turn the whole head to improve our field of view thus giving ourselves away and at least earning a poke in the ribs. which also now means when you walk passed an attractive person you'll be wondering if she did eye them but and be irritated as hell that she might have done even though she didn't move her head. But at least that explains why women are so much better at reading the street signs.
There's a couple of good books on this...Men are from mars and women are from venus and Why Men don't Listen and Women can't Read Maps.
Recently read on the bbc news web site that SATNAV systems are improving family holidays as more familys go out to new places with SATNAV because they don't end up having a steaming row when lost!!
Ok this is the point where I realise I'm going on too much....just love all this psychology stuff!
Hmmm Had a lot of piercings well 12 or so...
My best advice is twice daily cleaning with a strong saline solution. Some swear that lavendar oil is magical too. Taking ibuprofen helps reduce the swelling of sore tissue. Make sure that any cruddy bits are cleaned off the metal as they kill if the piercing is inflammed. Use separate cotton buds, or pads for each piercing. Soaking will help.
If the piercing moves too much, eg when sleeping, use micropore tape to fix it down. To remove the tape soak it off...for god's sake don't pull it off!
If it doesn't settle down well worth seeing your gp in case it is infected in which case antibiotics could help. If it does get infected, ie puss etc then DONT remove the ring...it will start to heal at the edges and may trap infection inside creating an abcess!
My best advice is twice daily cleaning with a strong saline solution. Some swear that lavendar oil is magical too. Taking ibuprofen helps reduce the swelling of sore tissue. Make sure that any cruddy bits are cleaned off the metal as they kill if the piercing is inflammed. Use separate cotton buds, or pads for each piercing. Soaking will help.
If the piercing moves too much, eg when sleeping, use micropore tape to fix it down. To remove the tape soak it off...for god's sake don't pull it off!
If it doesn't settle down well worth seeing your gp in case it is infected in which case antibiotics could help. If it does get infected, ie puss etc then DONT remove the ring...it will start to heal at the edges and may trap infection inside creating an abcess!
Guess when I was younger I had a much more fixed idea of what turned me on and didn't.
As I've got older I've relaxed, I'm more confident and very much more accepting of people. FIgure now it's how you feel with or around a person and that lots of our preconceptions actually dont apply.
Think I'd be up for anything but it would be the other person or people that made me want to do it.
As I've got older I've relaxed, I'm more confident and very much more accepting of people. FIgure now it's how you feel with or around a person and that lots of our preconceptions actually dont apply.
Think I'd be up for anything but it would be the other person or people that made me want to do it.
Just thought I'd say Hi to everyone. I'm 36 and in Mnasfield. I male too....always seem to confuse a few with Jez on these sites. Mind you I've had some interesting propositions!
I'm always looking for fun and mischief but enjoy chatting about sex and relationships anyway...maybe I should have been a psychologist or maybe I'm just another cat about to crash into curiosity. Actually come to think of it I just like chatting to people.
Ive had experience on the swining scene, loved it, but not for ages.
My greatest faults are being too open and telling people more than they wanted to know, being curious, over-enthusiastic and too trusting!
Don't mind who I chat to and amazingly I don't assume that any conversation you start is because you want my body.
Anyway say hello if you fancy and I chat on msn and messanger if anyone's interested.
I'm always looking for fun and mischief but enjoy chatting about sex and relationships anyway...maybe I should have been a psychologist or maybe I'm just another cat about to crash into curiosity. Actually come to think of it I just like chatting to people.
Ive had experience on the swining scene, loved it, but not for ages.
My greatest faults are being too open and telling people more than they wanted to know, being curious, over-enthusiastic and too trusting!
Don't mind who I chat to and amazingly I don't assume that any conversation you start is because you want my body.
Anyway say hello if you fancy and I chat on msn and messanger if anyone's interested.
Hmmmm No direct link I'm afraid. So many factors affect bone growth and development in the hands where endowment is more by simple inheritance. It may be close but nothing that statistically is significant.
Guess that's why most guy's prefer to compare it against someone else's hand!!
Guess that's why most guy's prefer to compare it against someone else's hand!!
Hi I just wanted to say hi and introduce myself. I live in Notts and love all the fun that can be had with intimacy. I'm open, honest, fun and smart enough not to be irritating!
I've looking to meet chat with like minded souls so if u see me about then please say hi.
I guess I am trying to separate myself from the pushy, thoughtless types I have met on swinging sites and show there is a fun person here with realistic ideas not someone that expects the earth for very little.
Jez
I've looking to meet chat with like minded souls so if u see me about then please say hi.
I guess I am trying to separate myself from the pushy, thoughtless types I have met on swinging sites and show there is a fun person here with realistic ideas not someone that expects the earth for very little.
Jez
