Where to start and how to explain! We're not 'hardened swingers' and we don't want to swap. What we want is to develop some friendships where we can be intimate or sexual as couples in the same room with other like minded couples. Both to watch and be watched, to share the intimate side of relationships rather than just surface things. That probably sounds too tame for most but that's where we are and what we're looking for. Any takers?