Thanks for all the replies and help. We are definitely the dress up types so came to the conclusion that Liberty Elite was a good place to start and will checking out AbFab on recommendations.
We are new to the scene and looking for a soft landing, so will be trying a theme night at LE soon. Does anyone know if the couples/singles ladies nights have a number of single ladies? I am bi and we are looking for a lady to join me while he gets to watch:-)