I am a well educated and professional likeable easy going straight man. I love to give and listen. I am kind and gentle by nature, but can give as hard as required as part of play. Please be reassured that I am respectable of boundaries and reciprocal fun is the main goal.

I am married, we swing as a couple too (DonAndCindy), and I am here on my own with my wife consent. I do love my wife, dearly, she is my soul mate and this will not change. Said that it can be fun to meet new people and share new experiences. Having been on the scene for a while I understand how it all works and there will no dramas from me.

I would always ask first and will always respect that No means No. Open clear communication is key to a great experience. 

Safe sex only please and prefer a woman who looks well after herself (as I do with myself). Mutual physical attraction is essential for this to work . 

What am I looking for? Ultimately likeminded ladies, whom I can become friend and share the benefits of a physical as well as mental connection. We need to be fairly local for it to work as life is busy, let's be honest.

I am also on fabswingers with the same nickname, have some verifications there (while none here of SH).