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Kay_Jamie
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 51
Bi-curious Female, 51
0 miles · Gloucestershire

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Quote by Jags
We can't moderate against time-wasters, men pretending to be women, men pretending to be couples etc etc, those type of people are everywhere,

As part of a cpl i have noticed there does seem to be a lot of single guys pretending to be part of a cpl or a single fem, in order to get pics or cyber or god knows what!! On another site they use a simple verification system (too simple imho), for the ad's, cpl's and single fems get a little 'V' next to their ad. so when you're chatting to sombody and they send their ad. No. and you see the 'V' you know its is a single fem/cpl you're chatting to, and not a single guy pretending to be a cpl/fem.
How do you verify cpl's/fem's?, i dont know, maybe from meets?, maybe get them to write their add number on a bit of paper and be holding it in a piccie?
Quote by KitKat
oops redface Down the Cowley road with a wadge of cash tomorrow methinks!

While youre there guys have a look for one of these , Kay was very very happy with her xmas pressie 69position , and at £30 from No. 54 (all i could find on internet was £45) was an absolute bargin!!!
Quote by KitKat
Thankyou - whoever it was 8)

Was Steve G that pointed us in the right direction, and thanks Kit.
@Fred Very south mids, in fact to be honest if we didnt get central telly i wouldnt beleive we were in the mids!!
Quote by KitKat
If you wish to, you can either place an ad with a picture, and link it to your posts

Erm, how do you do that?
Quote by bluexxx
So, did anyone else do anything fun for Xmas????

We actually managed to get xmas on our own this year, so we decided to spice it up a little wink . We only bought each other sexy gifts for use on the day, we cooked naked together with only aprons for protection and then ate our candle lit lunch naked. Then once dinner had gone down we spent the rest of the day using our gifts till the batteries ran dry!!. So if that counts as fun, then yes we did!!, lol.
Quote by steveg_nw
What are you making? The gullible twat of the year calender 2004?

lol @steve.
and Wilma, you got any month in mind for freds piccie? lol.
Quote by willxx69
(and yes, you should have kicked him in the balls!)

No she shouldnt have, 2 wrongs dont make a right an' all that!!, also it would have put bluexxx outside of the law etc etc.
As we're relitively new to the scene and have only been to 2-3 clubs this type of behaviour worries us, BUT the attitiude of the management scares the crap out of us. The few clubs we have been to seem to have the attitude of no means no, simple really and it works for us. For a club to have an attitude of " well you came her you should accept anything that happens " is ridiculous and down right dangerous.
If all clubs had the same attitude then i'd like to bet as NW Cpl have said many single fems / cpls wouldnt attend again.
Bluexxx if you dont want to name the club in here, then as wewantu has sugested then plz plz pm us interested ppl so we know where to avoid. Although i really do think you should 'name and shame' them in the main forum so new ppl like ourselves are warned, if we had a similar experience to youreself the 1st time we attened a club we certainly wouldnt be here now!!