Still large but not as big as before and certainly much fitter 43 yo male, ex rugby prop now prefers running the touchline.

Have been happily married to a wonderful partner who lives and works abroad so we only see each other once or possibly twice a month. She is aware of my involvement in the scene but to date has shown no interest in participating herself and I have no intention of cajouling her or forcing the issue much as I'd love for her to share in the wonderful times.

I regularly attend clubs with friends, both females and couples, and I ocassionally host private parties at our home in the south London, north Surrey area..

I am no oil painting (the rugby saw to that!) but am articulate, I like to think interesting, and have been told I'm definitely fun to be with.

I am seeking couples, groups, and females in London and the home counties who have a laid back outlook on life. Who enjoy intelligent conversation as well as lots of fun and enjoy living life to its fullest.

I have an open outlook and am still exploring my boundaries. The only boundary I do believe 100% in is consent.

I regret that I have had to remove a number of pictures from my profile due to a change of employer

I travel extensively abroad on business so a prompt reply from me may not always be forthcoming. I do however reply to all communications as those who I have had the pleasure of playing with can verify.