Thank-you very much for your reply, I do appreciate it. Complelty understand being in majority and that sits with me fine, it was to be expected. I'm just here to try and find new experiences and try and branch out my personal growth to see what I like and don't like. With regards to rejection I'm not a pushy person anyway, if I was to send a message and get no reply I'd leave it be, and if I was to get a rejection say thanks for the response and move on. Maybe my personality type is not a good fit for this scene I'm a reserved type of person who tends to stay in the back ground. I've been monitoring the chat room to gain some experience on the do's & don't, and I've been looking at local clubs around my area to see what is about, there's one in a few weeks where I may and go and get a beer and see what it's all about. Thank-you very much for your help

Im a newbie to this is scene, ive very recently joined this website. It has always peaked my interest but i've never had the confidence to follow up. Its time to bite the bullet but i could do with a mentor with experience to help show me the ropes of the do's and dont's. Any advice appreciated, please help.