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Lilith
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Quote by GnV
Would I be right in thinking that one of the statutory defences against either likely charge is that the defendant believed (or had no reason to disbelieve) that the 'child' was 16 and therefore able in law to provide her consent to either activity.
Girls grow up so quickly these days and society itself encourages it (except when it suits society not to). As a teacher in the same school she attended, I doubt that he would have unfettered access to her personal details such as her date of birth so would have to rely on her truthfulness to establish her age. If she told a little 'porky' about her age (the class year she was placed in wouldn't necessarily be definitive) and he had no reason to disbelieve her, then the CPS might find it difficult to satisfy one other important test - that a prosecution would likely be successful.

Yes - the statutory provisions say that "in proceedings against any person for an offence under this section, it shall be a defence for that person to prove that, at the time of the alleged offence, he believed the child had attained the age of sixteen."
This is mere speculation, but I think it may be difficult for him to run that defence. Teachers do have access to a lot of personal information about their pupils. And, I think it's a tricky defence in any event, as the onus is on the defendant to prove that he reasonably believed she was 16 - he needs to give good reasons for that, and I doubt "she told me she was 16" is terribly convincing... dunno
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Not true! Some are interested in wanking and blowjobs too... :giggle:
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Quote by starlightcouple
After what this guy has already lost, will it actually serve any purpose?

I think there is a wider question of what is in the public interest here, and not just what is best for the child in question. So, I do think that a prosecution will serve a purpose. In light of the media attention, I think it will be deemed to be very important to set an example here, particularly given the role of responsibility and trust of the man in question.
In addition to the public interest, I imagine that her parents will also have suffered a lot of distress as a result of the incident, and it seems (from flicking through old caselaw) that her family will be viewed as victims in the circumstances, even if the girl does not herself feel as though she is a victim of any crime (except, perhaps, what she may consider to be a crime against "true love"...)
As an aside, I find it interesting (but unsurprising) that we have gravitated in this thread from a moral debate to a discussion about the law. Morality and the law are closely related (particularly in the context of criminal law) - the criminal law is often (to my mind) a reflection of the majority public view on any given moral question. So, it's very interesting to discuss this issue both as a general moral question (as some have done) and in the context of a debate about the adequacy/role of the criminal justice system.
Ok... so I was definitely right that her consent is immaterial - this is taken from the CPS prosecution guidance:
"The fact that the child may voluntarily seek out the company of the suspect is not a defence to either s.2 or See, for example R v Leather (1994) 98 in which the court held that the test was whether the child had been deflected from that which he would with parental consent otherwise have been doing.
See also Foster v DPP 1 WLR 1400 in which the child ran away from her foster carers in order to associate with the defendant. This case is also important for clarifying the distinction between taking and keeping in s.2. The court held that s.2(1)(a) required the child there and then to be in the lawful control when taken or detained, whereas s.2(1)(b) required only that the child was kept out of the lawful control of someone entitled to it when taken or detained."
What is material is the consent of the parents or legal guardians, rather than the child. There is an offence if a person has taken a child or kept a child away from her parents/guardians without their consent or any legal right to do so.
In a case called R v. Delaney, a 12-year old girl ran away from her mother with a man who had been in a relationship with her mother (so, acting in a fatherly role to the girl). He had no previous convictions. On appeal, his sentence of 2.5 years imprisonment was upheld because "the offence had a traumatic effect on the girl's family".
In relation to the question of evidence, it is not only the statements of the child that are relevant. The CPS will consider all available evidence and if they have sufficient evidence and deem it to be in the public interest, they will prosecute (regardless of whether the child wants the person prosecuted and/or is willing to give evidence themselves).
Also, Star - in relation to your comment about prosecuting statutory , I think the change in law that you're referring to is about whether or not it was a crime if there was consent from the child in question. In 2003, the law was clarified to make it clear that any sexual activity involving consenting children under 16 is unlawful. It has always been possible to prosecute regardless of whether the child will give evidence - the CPS decides whether to prosecute based on a number of factors, and it has always been the case that if they had sufficient evidence and felt it was in the public interest, they could prosecute.
Quote by GnV
Who is saying that they had sex?

I didn't say they had - I was comparing the crime of child abduction to that of statutory . I'm not sure of the answer to star's question yet though.
But, having said that, I'd put money on a bet that they had more than a platonic relationship!!!
Quote by starlightcouple
I though am unsure as to what he will be charged with. Abduction of a minor? What happens if she says she went willingly and decides not to give any evidence against him? What happens if she refuses to give any evidence about anything? This is a difficult one for the law

It doesn't matter if she consented; it is like statutory in that the law applies based on the age of the child and the action - the child's consent is irrelevant. I doubt it will be all that tricky to put a case together, and I'm pretty sure he can be prosecuted even of the girl's parents don't want to press charges. But, I will double check that when I'm at my computer (rather than on my iPhone!)
Quote by starlightcouple
On this one I think I shall let the courts decide.

How very generous of you! I'm sure they'll be delighted!! ;-)
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shame blue is not a regular as he used to be in here :sad:
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puts piece of straw in corner of mouth and comments "gerroff my land "

Who said I was a townie...?? Country lass through and through, thank you very much! Suffolk born and bred, my friend (although not living there now, of course)... ;-)
Quote by flower411
It's actually got nothing to do with sex - he's accused* of child abduction, regardless of whether or not he had sex with her.
I say "accused" and not "guilty" because he has not yet been tried in a court of law...

All the more reason to question ...... if she is capable of being blamed for murder in the eyes of the law ...shouldn`t she be able to decide who she goes on holiday with ?
No. She is a child and therefore requires her parents' consent. Her parents (or legal guardians) are responsible for her until she reaches adulthood. Which is as it should be.
So by the same logic her parents should be held responsible if she commits murder .
Perhaps I should have been more specific - I meant that her parents are responsible for her wellbeing...
I think that the question of the legal age of criminal responsibility is an entirely different debate.
Bringing it back on topic, the facts are that he is accused of a crime because it is a crime for a person to take a child (defined as a person under the age of 16 for this purpose) away from his/her legal guardians without their consent. Do you disagree that this is an appropriate law? Do you think that children under that age should be permitted to go off (to another country) with a person twice their age without their parents' knowledge or consent? Really?
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Quote by flower411
It's actually got nothing to do with sex - he's accused* of child abduction, regardless of whether or not he had sex with her.
I say "accused" and not "guilty" because he has not yet been tried in a court of law...

All the more reason to question ...... if she is capable of being blamed for murder in the eyes of the law ...shouldn`t she be able to decide who she goes on holiday with ?
No. She is a child and therefore requires her parents' consent. Her parents (or legal guardians) are responsible for her until she reaches adulthood. Which is as it should be.
Quote by flower411
in the eyes of the law she IS capable of making adult decisions because she could be found responsible for murder ......are we saying that emotional or sexual desire is beyond our control until we are sixteen and then suddenly becomes controllable?

In the eyes of the law she is capable of understanding the difference between right and wrong from the age of 10 - that is the psychological premise on which the legal age of criminal responsibility is based.
I think that there is a HUGE difference between a child aged 10 being held responsible for his or her own criminal actions, and a situation where an adult man has sex with a child of that age. Are you suggesting that, since the criminal age of responsibility is 10, the age of consensual sex should also be 10 and it should therefore be OK for older men to have sex with 10 year olds? What about other things, like the legal age to buy alcohol, or cigarettes, or the legal age to vote or join the military...? Should everything be set at aged 10?
There are a lot of differences in the legal definition of a "child", depending on the context and there are good reasons for this (the NSPCC has a good on this).
But perhaps I have misunderstood you... perhaps you think that the age of criminal responsibility is too low (as has been suggested by the )?
It's actually got nothing to do with sex - he's accused* of , regardless of whether or not he had sex with her.
I say "accused" and not "guilty" because he has not yet been tried in a court of law...
I'm quite upset about the decision to , and have been following the news stories about this recently. I have always battled with myself over where I stand (in general) on the issue of animal culling. My gut reaction is that it is wrong to kill animals other than as part of the food chain - I eat meat and have no problem with hunting when the purpose is to eat the animals that are hunted. But, as a general rule, I find it upsetting when people hunt for fun or engage in any form of animal culling where the purpose is simply to kill the animal, as it is such a waste of a life and strikes me as uncivilised and cruel.
Having said all of that, my head tells me that this emotional reaction that I have is not always logical. We (humans) have made quite a mess of the natural balance in the world and we certainly do not live in harmony with our environment. We have created countless problems in nature, and I think it is our responsibility to do what we can to fix the problems that we create (although, those doing the fixing are rarely those who caused the problems in the first place...). For example, when invasive species are introduced into an environment and threaten an indigenous species (grey squirrels in the UK being a prime example), we then have a responsibility to protect the indigenous species (since it's our fault for buggering up the natural balance in the first place).
Anyway... my point is that I still don't know where I stand on the issue of animal culling in general, so for me, I think it very much depends on the specific circumstances in any given situation. In this case, I am leaning towards the view that the decision to permit badger culling is the wrong decision. There appears to be very little evidence that it will have a significant impact on the spread of TB, and (being cynical) I wonder whether the policy has been introduced simply so that the Government doesn't have to do anything more expensive to try to stem the spread of the disease.
I'd be interested to know what others think about this, as it really is the sort of issue that I always find difficult to resolve in my mind...
Quote by neilinleeds
Mike, agree absolutely. The girl's 15. She may be mature physically, but in the eyes of the law she's still a child. She's not deemed capable of making adult decisions, or capable of fully appreciating the potential ramifications of those decisions in terms of their potential harm. I don't think she shares anything like the same responsibility as the teacher. The law is there to protect her from herself as much as it is to protect her from adults who might take advantage of a young girl's burgeoning sexuality.
The teacher should have been able to maintain his professional boundaries, no matter how seductive she was with him. His inability to do that shows he's quite immature himself, either unable or unwilling to properly apply reason and restrain his desire, allowing himself instead to be led by his cock and emotions. He must have known deep down exactly how this would turn out, yet still he did it. Absolutely reckless, speaks volumes. Quite right that the full consequences fall on him, and him alone.

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This is truly a superbly written post and I couldn't agree more. She is the child; he is the adult. He should have known better and it does not matter how flirtatious or downright slutty she was - it was his responsibility to say no and protect her. Not only because she is a child, but also because he was placed in a position of responsibility and trust in her life. I really don't have much more to add, as neil has pretty much expressed my thoughts (almost as if he strolled into my brain and plucked 'em out!)
As an aside, if any of you have seen Hard Candy, the character played by Ellen Page in that film does a very good job of explaining the point here (albeit using rather violent methods!)
I find it really, really difficult to read posts with poor spelling, grammar and punctuation and resist the urge to act like a teacher and re-post the comments with corrections in red text!! But, I generally try to ignore the mistakes (just as I do when friends email me or write messages on Facebook with similar errors), unless they're intentionally funny and pun-worthy posts, in which case I worship the person who has posted, as I love a clever play-on-words!!*
I know that it's not my place to correct people, no matter how much I would like to improve the general standard of English!!
I agree with Paddy that nobody is perfect and people shouldn't be made to feel stupid in what should be a warm and friendly environment. But, as a general comment (not directed at anyone in particular), it does make me sad that so many people seem to struggle so much with basic spelling, grammar and punctuation. I don't really know where I learned how to spell correctly and how to properly construct sentences, as I don't think it was taught particularly well when I was at school. I think it may be because I have always loved to read and I think you learn a lot about English language through reading.
Anyway... I'm not really sure that I have a point here... so I shall shut up now! :gagged:
:-D
* One of my favourite non-fiction books is "Eats, Shoots and Leaves", which is an excellent rant on poor punctuation, and is also a very clever book title!
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I blame flower for posting threads that are too tempting and entertaining and keep distracting me from the work I'm supposed to be doing this evening...!