I’m interested in developing a submissive relationship with an assertive older male or female (45 years upwards, but would not dismiss a couple either), who would be able to provide mentorship, guidance and control.

This person would need to be imaginative and not just be restricted to schoolgirl / headmaster, / daughter and tying up – surely there’s more to rope play than ‘just tying up’.

This would be initially online, where a certain amount of understanding of each other can be gained and to also build a little trust. Once / if something is built up, I’d then like to meet and develop further in real life and take things from there.

I’m only interested in talking to serious people and that I’ve no interest in proving lots of pictures for someone to masturbate over, so picture collectors don’t bother. Also, I’m not at all interested in a cam session straight away, so please don’t ask!!!

Likewise, I’m very sorry, but young guys please don’t bother trying. For it to be realistic for me, someone younger or near to my own age just won't work. I’ve a preference for older men. Not sure of a reason as to why, just have always been with older.

I have no sub experience (so a blank canvas) and I’m not naturally submissive, but I do like the idea of being submissive to / for someone. I am interested in someone being creative with this blank canvass.

At this point in time, I’m only looking for one on one, as I’m not keen on the idea of group sex, sex with complete strangers, being offered out to friends etc etc.

I’m particularly interested in breast play and dressing up.

Please note that I will be unable to do daytime meets and please be honest with what you are going to be able to get away with away from home, as I don’t want to start something only to find that we can’t continue and move to real time because of restrictions.

I no longer have access to chat so to all those who I did used to chat to regular that's why I am not around in the rooms now xx

That’s it for now ....I think xx