BDSM to me is beautiful if the right people are tuned in. only looking for LOCAL KENT people

Ultimately I am a deviant. Always looking for new things to do to entertain me and satisfy me. It depends on the person I am with to how I behave. BDSM is another part of sharing something wonderful (and wild) with someone, a connection on a higher level of senses that can be very erotic or quite funny. I can have such a bitch instinct and cruel nature at times. I find it utterly erotic in sensing what I am doing to a submissive, I tune in, it's beautiful. Being dominated is like the biggest satisfying cuddle even if that entails someone using pain on me or I them. DOMME, SUB SWITCH - ALL? I dislike titles and dislike arrogance and people that want something for nothing.

I have no sense of style and so that IS my style, Im outspoken, WELL spoken, a positive narcisist, slightly solopsistic, odd, funny, creative, educated, active, i TRY a lot, im RUBBISH if theres a phone call i need to make or an important letter i need to post. I need coffee to make me function in the mornings, i cant drink alcohol - or if i do i get wasted FAR too quickly. I have dyed my hair for many years and surprised it doesn't fall out when people grab it! I like certain things a particular way, I am horribly honest and a realist, I have no time for bullshit. I am very open about being into BDSM - it is no secret to my friends, family or the people listening in to my gossip when chatting loudly in a coffee shop! I fiercely love my family and my close friends and nothing or no one comes between me and them.

Ultimately I am happy with my life. I am here to chat to people, make new friends and to share fun experiences.

note: am not a paying member so functions are limited in responding. give me other options of contact.

NOTE: LOCAL LOCAL LOCAL - - IF YOU LIVE MILES AND MILES AWAY AND CANT MEET UP REGULARLY THEN PLEASE DONT BOTHER. :) NOT interested in phone or cyber sex - I do this and get paid for it for a living (and im really really good at it too!) lol - so yes - REAL meets with beautiful people only