Thanks!

No worries - you were helpful 2for2more.  I have a public profile for work anyway.  I suppose I'll have to decide what I want to do and learn more about computers.  Thanks for all the kind comments!!

I think what I did (in error) was use a facial shot (clean and decent) and he had software that allowed him put it into google and drag up my Twitter profile.  I guess I shouldn't send images.

Sorry that above quotes were an error.  Yes I could buy a separate phone with my bank details (for security reasons), running two mobile phones is quite expensive.   My  . is anon.  The only thing I gave was my first name and that I worked in education.  He was a computer expert and managed to find me somehow. 

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I may be missing something here, so my apologies if I'm oversimplifying things. But it seems to me that if you want to keep the two aspects of your life separate, it might be a good idea to make more effort to ensure they stay that way.
I.e separate twit-book and   accounts with a whole different personality and no clues as to where you live, as well as a different phone number for your on-line 'sex-meet profile' than for work, family and everything else in your life. 
That way, you simply press the -off- button when you don't want to be contacted by dick heads and the only people who have access to your personal life are those you invite.

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I may be missing something here, so my apologies if I'm oversimplifying things. But it seems to me that if you want to keep the two aspects of your life separate, it might be a good idea to make more effort to ensure they stay that way.
I.e separate twit-book and   accounts with a whole different personality and no clues as to where you live, as well as a different phone number for your on-line 'sex-meet profile' than for work, family and everything else in your life. 
That way, you simply press the -off- button when you don't want to be contacted by dick heads and the only people who have access to your personal life are those you invite.

Thanks.  I always meet in a hotel.  People often ask what job I do?  Is this normal.  I can understand it for security reasons, but other wise it is irrelevant.

Thanks for being lovely.  I hope I don't sound arrogant, but it is a bit distressing.

Absolutely.  My meet before decided that it was a relationship.   I had two other meets (2 years ago) that were absolutely fine.  My Twitter account is work related and has colleagues on it which is why I didn't like it and I found it indirectly threatening.  It seems to be an age related.  I happy to meet with older guys - on both occasions they have disparaged women their own age in front of me and then gone to on pestering.   Whilst guys my age, just move on.

I am having a problems with Whats app and social media.  I give guys my number for security reasons and to make meeting up easier.  I met up with a guy and asked him to keep messages to my phone business like (discreet), which he did not.  I humoured it up to a point and met up, which was fine.  I didn't agree to meet him again though because I didn't want to get involved  - he started to send dirty messages about our meet to my personal phone when I was out with my mum (awkward) and also would send dirty messages when I was obviously at work.   He then found out who I was and followed my Twitter account (I said keep it discrete).   I then blocked him and I has contacted me a week later with a new number.

I always get badgered for repeat meetings and pressurised.  I wondered if this was normal behaviour, it's becoming more work than a boyfriend.