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Quote by Hornysexbum
Looking for group of strangers take turns on gf why she blindfolded NW England area

 

I give up!!

Quote by Hornysexbum
0looking for hookups parties NW England 

 

Perhaps you might have more luck by starting your own thread rather than hijacking someone else's?

I know Pattaya very well  - if you have never been before drop me a PM and I'll let you know more about it.

When are you going?

The reason behind removing exact locations and possibly timings from forum posts is to prevent everyone who has access to the forums to turning up, whereas the intention of an original poster maybe just a few turning up. It can be quite daunting if you turn up and there's 20-30 waiting just for you to perform. 

The 'dogging locations' are more detailed in that they give full locations. What it doesn't give is a guarantee that it is still an active site or that anyone will be there on any particular night.

The site is not trying to break its own rules or profit on the back of this. They purely want you to enjoy your time dogging however you want to arrange it. Don't forget, not everyone who turns up at a dogging meet is there for the same reason as you, hence keeping times and locations of actual meets kept vague.

I hope that clears it up for you.

I/We go out there a couple of times a year. Drop me a line and I can give you some background, but it would be useful to know what you're looking for and general areas you want to know about.

Mal

Hi Garfy

Think of the background as much as the subject matter. Does it show your dirty laundry all over the floor? Have you got visible family pics on the wall?

Don't post medical close up pics - you know the sort, a pic taken about an inch from the end of your willy. It doesn't tell anyone anything about you.

If you don't smoke and don't drink as according to your profile, make sure there's no empty Jack Daniels rolling around the floor in the background, just next to an overflowing ashtray, it makes you out to be disingenuous.

Get someone to take them for you. Selfies are all well and good, but it doesn't really 'sell' you, if you get my meaning.

Naked are ok, but semi naked can give your pic a bit more character, so think about tasteful semi naked pics. Standing in front of a mirror fully clothed with your dick out doesn't really cut it!

At the end of the day, your profile and the accompanying pics are your shop window, your opportunity to 'sell' yourself and make you stand out from the crowd. Don't waste the opportunity as if it doesn't catch their attention the first time they look, they wont look a second time.


Good luck!!


Mal

Quote by sebnkel
If it has to be "vague" what's the point of answering the question?

 

https://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/456562.html


Hope this helps

Coals to Newcastle springs to mind! I'm currently in Pattaya at the moment but there are plenty of ladies around if you want to meet them. PM if you want more info.


Mal

Quote by sexyian
anyone about??

 

Ian - for the second time, please do not post adult pics in the forums.

Quote by Naughty_Wigan_Couple
Quote by Cubes
I’m sure Sarah has it, along with the SH pin badges. ;)
 Oh no she hasnt, I have them stored safely away (not the pins, the collection of pics) :bounce:

 


Good to see you back - are you sticking around? Kisses


Mal

It's not just the guys with multiple cock pics, what about the profiles with loads of close up pussy pics? Nothing about the lady at all, just pics taken from about an inch away from the pussy. One is fine, but not as if they had the camera on 'sport' mode and kept their finger on the shutter release!!

Quote by jayk2
hi SH , that's good to know , but how do you get into chat , to view cams ? 

 Top of the page, click on the 'chatroom' link.

I applaud your effort to arrange an event, however these type of threads rarely match the actual attendees. Firstly you haven't given a date, so those who say yes now, may have conflicting events on the date you eventually choose. Secondly, you haven't given any idea of what type of social you're thinking of. And thirdly, they may post in here a 'yes' then forget about checking back to see if the event is actually going ahead if you leave the thread running too long without setting a date.

if you can  organise an event, scope out a venue, speak to them first to see if they can take do what you are hoping, then post up a date and what is involved. That way your replies will be more genuine to the event. If you don't commit to it, neither will anyone else.


"Build it and they will come"

Hope that helps

Mal

Quote by Krismatic
Novice couple would like to try dogging for the first time but need help

 

Everything on your profile says you're single!!!

Quote by yorksbob
Have tried with no luck so far but here goes again. Looking for bi couple or single chap for fun. 
Sorry about the profile but have to be discreet. I'm stocky rugby build down to earth sort. 
Can travel or maybe accommodate.
Home alone DL8 area 30 Jan to 1 Feb.

 

Discreet? Bob, your profile just says 'Hi'! 

If you don't make an effort, neither will anyone else. You have to give them something more than 'Hi' to make them think you're the guy they are happy to meet. Why should they open up to you if you don't open up to them?

Nobody is expecting you to give your full name address, telephone number, reference from your boss, etc, etc, but surely you can give them some details of likes, dislikes, give them a taste of your sense of humour, that sort of thing. 

Would you buy a car where the description said "blue car for sale" - and that was it? 


Here to help, Bob, but according to your profile you have been here for over ten years and surely you have more to offer than just 'hi'?


Mal

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Ello lovely Cubes passionkiss.gif 

 


Bloody hell, Missy - where have you been?? :rose:


Mal

Quote by strauss245
you can’t even name and shame the fake profiles or time wasters on here because the moderators protect them and let them stay to keep the numbers up !

 


What a load of bollocks. We do not protect the time wasters, what we protect are normal members who could be open to being 'named and shamed' by someone maliciously. Neither the innocent or the guilty can prove their innocence once their name is up in lights. Mud sticks, Strauss. 

As for keeping the numbers up, Strauss, that also is bollocks. It makes no difference to me if we have 50,000 members or 500,000. Like you I'm a member on here but I volunteer to be a moderator, to give something back to the site and the swinging community. I don't get paid and I don't get extra shags (more's the pity!), so why I should try to keep the membership up by keeping disingenuous people onboard is well beyond my limited comprehension, especially as we ban many on a daily basis who we know are only out to get money from you by trying to re-direct you to their paid sites.

If you see a 'fake' profile, please feel free to report it and we'll deal with it, but please don't just put the reason as 'fake profile' with nothing to back it up. We're not mind readers or criminal investigators, so help us to help you.


Mal


Cleverjet, it's unfortunate that these things happen, however such is life. We don't allow naming and shaming for the reasons above, therefore this thread is locked.

Just a suggestion, but perhaps it might be worth saying which area you are likely to meet? Scotland? Wales? North/South England? It should then stop anyone saying they would love to join you only to find they are hundreds of miles away!


Just a thought


Mal

Quote by hornyhampshogs
Hi we are very very interested! Are you full? 

 

Errr, it was last year!!!! icon_mrgreen

Quote by stpiersq
were's the F1 spa I'm going to amsterdam arriving monday morning

 


No, they mean the Formula 1 Grand Prix AT Spa in Belgium!!


I'm heading over to North Wales next weekend for the bike fest. Anyone else going or fancy a ride out en route Friday or on the return on Sunday?


Mal

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Quote by Tomas101
Come and join me

 

This was back in March.

He posted this over a month ago and not responded at all. His profile also states he is playing alone so maybe not a thread to keep going.


Don't hold your breath, guys!!


Mal

Quote by hope471
Hi all,


we are looking for a male with 9 plus clean to meet up at a hotel, have some drinks and lots of fun. photo is a must she 34 very sexy his is 50 7 cut.


please remember clean shaven and 9 plus 


regards 


John

 


We? 

You don't have a couples account, therefore you cannot advertise on behalf of a non-member.

Quote by dombow73
Soz..... I don't know how I missed that one..... grammar "I think you'll find.... singular and plural.... just saying!!!

 


?? Single and plural? " I think you'll find" ?? Where's the plural?

Still, since you started down that line, check out your own profile and have a look at your spelling - 

"Back from an enforced hiatus. Looking for like minded couples / single women for dogging voyerism encounters. I am considerate, experienced and above all respectful of boudaries. Looking to meet with larger couples (love BBW) or older... sorry not into anyone below my age.... Just my thing. Will upload pics when I can. Looking to meet in and around Oxfordshire / Warwickshire areas."

Glass houses and all that :grin:

Quote by carlstuart
Hi, just read about your event. I would really like to attend. I'm a white guy, gym fit and heavy cummer. Met a few couples on here before so am experienced in group fun.
Please don't hesitate to contact me if you need any more info.
Carl

 


Unless you have a time machine, you won't be invited to this one - it was last week!!

Quote by dombow73
Where is the location can you PM me. Cant make the 11th but will be out at the end of the month. Thanks.

 


Err, I'll think you'll find that was two months ago and they have now left the site!!