Looking for my long term sub muse, BUT if you're looking for safe, casual fun, then this bit is for you.

For casual fun I do do one-offs, but prefer regular fun and I do NOT indulge in unsafe sex!

I am an intelligent, handsome, experienced, 40's man who's Dominant yet not abusive. I am communicative, funny, witty, intelligent and great fun. I love to fuck beautifully, am experienced in the art of tantric sex and G-spot massage. You will find me friendly, but not clingy and able to make you feel safe and comfortable.

I am 5'10" tall, slim/rugby build, have thick curly brown hair, a pert arse and a delicious 8" thick, circumcised cock.

I'm happy to meet for a no pressure social drink first. You need read no further for casual encounters.

For those interested in a long term relationship, all of the above aplies.

I am seeking my muse for, hopefully, a great future together. If you want someone who role plays telling you what to do when he doesn?'t know you or have a clue what makes you tick, then move on, because I don't work that way. I'm passionate, yet controlled, and worthy of a great woman who has a sense of self and craves a man with erotic intelligence, who she can trust. If we get on, I'll get to know you, nothing is prescriptive about me, and I have to find you worthy of my attention.

This requires immense courage and intense, honest, communication. It also requires intimacy, trust, compassion, honesty, an enquiring beautiful mind, understanding and a solid foundation. The woman I want must appear vanilla in day to day life, as I want to be able to socialise with you and I hope you have opinions and something to say. You must be in touch with your sexuality, finding sexuality fascinating and want to explore with me. This takes time and we need to get to know each other, it's not just assumed.

I dislike people who don't listen, prejudice, racism, laziness, assumptions, thick people and ignorance. I love passion, exploration, intimacy, closeness, listening, indolence, hedonism, intelligence and whit among other things.

I am 5'10" tall, slim/rugby build, have thick curly brown hair, brown eyes, a glint in my eyes and a spring in my step. All this from a Dominant man? Yes I am special and I hope you are too. You will also find me open to trying new things with the right person and in the right setting.

You will find me articulate, honest, trustworthy, very intelligent and I have a profession and live the life I love. I play the drums, write, work with young people and live where I want to live, how I want to live. To give you a little clue about me- I always wanted to live in the exact space where I live. So I got the planning permission and have been happily living here for thirteen years nearly.

If any of this resonates with you, then get in touch.

My Ideal Person:

I do adore bisexual women (not a pre-requisite), attractive, intelligent- I can go on and on, but really the only way of knowing is by communicating and seeing where it leads. You can be either new to this or experienced, want to explore intimately, in a safe and sane way. Nothing is prescriptive with me. I do meet for safe fun on a more casual, friendly basis, but I would also love to meet my muse for a long term relationship.