People endlessly fascinate me, and I am forever curious to learn how each couple started on their journey to explore swinging, how they began that initial conversation, and how it developed from there and the different stages they go through. I have already told the story of meeting Laura and Don - see 'Just a drink', and this account is of a follow-up meeting that happened last autumn, four years later - I can be very pa...

Wind the clock forward a couple of years, and when my former 'student', Karen, came to visit me after work one day, it was clear she had graduated with distinction! It was a warm sunny June evening, and I was just getting ready to head home after everyone else had left, when the phone rang, and a somewhat excited Karen said she was just leaving the station, and could she come round and see me. About 6 o'clock there was a...

According to my research, 'the mechanism of the female orgasm is actually a series of rapid, rhythmic contractions. And they're not just in the vagina: an orchestra of pulses go through the genitals, anus, uterus, and pelvic floor all at once and extremely rapidly. But it also makes the brain explode, flooding it with opoids from the limbic system as a "reward" full of pleasure and happiness. This chemical flood can be a...

I met this very nice couple by chatting on SH. I was particularly attracted to them as they were just normal people, and not overtly sexual which isn't really my thing - I prefer femininity and subtlety. There were a lot of photos of Laura 'out and about' showing a bit of leg here and a nipple there, but completely natural and unforced. We chatted away, but Don said fairly early on that there wasn't much point in going to...

Jesse and I had certainly struck up quite a rapport, and while we had agreed not to meet due to distance, stayed in touch. In fact we were e-mailing one another every few days. After a couple of weeks, she really took the wind out of my sails by sending me some photos of her having sex with a guy she nicknamed Phil the Greek. I'm not sure he was Greek at all, but he was quite a thick set man, shaved head and evidently a b...

So....Jesse and her g-spot. She claimed it had never been discovered, and while there is said to be some doubt about its existence, on the strength of my experience it definitely exists - you just have to locate it! Having been playing for a couple of hours and just fucked, it could be that her body was sufficiently relaxed and receptive. I slipped off the bed and knelted on the floor in front of her. She positioned her b...

Jesse and I met on a marrieds dating site - yes I know, very naughty - tish, tish! We got on instantly online, and chatted away about our different situations. She was seeing a guy at his shop at lunchtimes, but essentially she was sucking him off and not getting much in return, so was looking for something a bit more equitable. We were both very keen to meet, but there was the small matter of the four hour drive that sep...

Suzy and I worked together, and it all started innocently enough - doesn't it always! We had a great working relationship, and really sparked off one another; we were a good team. We had to travel a lot to meetings by car, and were never lost for something to say. We looked forward to these trips, often requiring early starts and late finishes, stopping occasionally on the way back for a drink or something to eat, and fro...

This story goes back a few years, but illustrates how a large age gap needn't be a barrier to two people enjoying one another when they simply want the same thing - sex! I met Georgina (not her real name) via another website. She was 27, had been married and left her husband, but gone back to live and care for him after he'd had a bad motorbike accident. I was 49, so 22 years older. Now he was recovered she had left again...