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Mateyboy
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 55
Straight Female, 58

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if i did convince my wife are there any soft swing clubs in south london? :shock: confused:
Quote by little gem
Mateyboy, she might have serious reservations because of this thing with her sisters marriage. Talk about things openly with her, but, whatever you do, don't push the issue as it will drive a wedge between you and she'll resent you possibly. She will bring it up in her own time.
If it is a no and a firm no, she will bring it up in future if she wants to have a go. If not, like davej and the others have said, accept your lot and do other things to spice up your sex life.
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Gem. x

thanks what you say above is spot on what i am thinking confused
thanks for all the replys,quite interesting the mix of blokes saying tough!,and the girls saying persevere,another problem is her sis did swinging in aus and led to break up of her marriage :cry:
Quote by curious_catz
That's obvious isn't it??
If you love her you do nothing? :confused:
ps.... does she know you're using this forum?

She has gone to aus to see her family for three weeks,so no,and i will do nothing
but it is a little frustrating!
Well the problem is that i really would like to swing,but i dont want an affair so what do
i do? confused:
Hi there, I'm new to this so I was wondering has anyone got any tips on how to convince my wife to get into Swapping?
I am up for it but she's not.
Can anyone help? sad wink