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Medwaysteve
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 54

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Quote by gjstonight
If you read the time of the ad which was just after midnight to see 2 twats reply on the monday afternoon we think its you who needs to take up fishing as your obviously to thick to do anything more exiting......dherrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Have you been reading "How to win friends and influence people" by any chance ?
Steve
Quote by paullisa
thanks sarah although its a lovely place cant be doing with all them boy racers there :cry:

Id suggest re-reading sarahs message ! It was meant i believe more in terms of "Oh well done,you have just alerted the boy racers and nutters to a venue"
Steve
Well a nods as good as a wank to a blind guy as they say!!!! good luck!
Steve
Glad you put the camera on and not in the excitement throw the van into reverse !!! :P
Steve
Quote by kentcouple
We are a medway couple. M41Str8 F38 Bi. He likes to watch while she enjoys mutual wank and oral. Now getting to the desperate stage to find decent dogging sites in Kent. All the ones we know about are either dead or full of idiots. Please,please,please let us in on the good sites. Willing to travel reasonable distance.
Also willing to meet guys for pre-arranged hook up in secluded spots if you know any.

Check your PM's,sent you one through.
Cheers,
Steve
In theory all you need would be a secluded private area and stick a couple of security guards and all would be well....
But.....
The reality is oh so different .
First you would probably need a licence for a public event (We all know what councils are like!) then because it would involve sex it would probably come foul of some 400 year old by law . Then if you got past that no doubt health and safety would charge in saying you need x amount of toilets and condom machines....then if you got past all that no doubt the local pimps would move in and start introducing working girls etc etc.
So you can see its not to straight forward . My thought is with the amount of emty large warehouses around it might be a good idea to use those (ah shelter from the rain indeed!!) but then it all comes down to the same problems .
By the time all would be up and running it would be so expensive to enter on the off chance of catching something happening that you may as well jump on a cheap flight to amsterdam for a bit of the old window shopping !!!!!!
Sorry to put a dampner on it,just the way sadly i see it.
Steve
Its the N Kent water you know,i went to bed one night 30 and woke up 68.....gave up dogging and took up bingo !!!!!!! wink
Steve
Quote by steve41kent
You should have stayed Steve....loads of boy racers shouting abuse after you left!!!
(I was the one in the blue car).

Were you the guy on the mobile or the one that pulled up in front of the two cars ? It was to bloody dark to see the car colours!!!! lol
Well went up to "P" in the early hours and bins had been turned over all over the car park,a total mess . I truly cant understand the polices view of hit the doggers yet dont worry much about the racers.
Next time you see me mate just say hello , always good to meet folk from on here.
Cheers,
Steve
Quote by cheb55
Eh? There doesn't appear to be an email link at the bottom of the post! Oh well, never mind. I was actually quite curious as to exactly how they were going to go about this "unique and classy" business. Correct me if I'm wrong but I don't think many people get into dogging in pursuit of class... ass maybe, but nor class.

Guess it means you have to turn up in a Bentley and make your butler stand in the rain keeping a look out for the police cars!!!! wink
Steve
Ok its now official,i know you keep taking everyone to a different venue when you see my car coming into range !!!!!!! lol
Well if you see a silver largish car pulling in next time just give me a wave! :P
Cheers,
Steve
Hi Jackie and Ben,
Im much the same,dont tend to be able to make it early in the evening...tends to be between about 11pm and 2am that i head out . Mind you not that many folk out at 2am!!!!! confused
Cheers,
Steve
Hi Jackie and Ben,
Well as i say i got to "P" about and one of the guys was on a phone to a fellow dogger i think and from the sounds of it the guy was saying they did a sweep of all the known sites . I dont have a definate time of when it happened but sounds like it must have been between 9 and 10pm . I took a drive past "C" before i went to "P" and saw two police cars driving along the road so i didnt pull in.
If you are heading to either venue in future send me a private message and ill let you know the latest updates as i head down there a few times a week now . That way youll be able to at least find out if the coast is fairly clear!!!
Hope you had a good night though,
Cheers,
Steve
Just got back from a venue in Maidstone (Begins with P!) . Three cars there when i pulled in and got out for a chat,all blokes but nice bunch of lads all the same .
I said i had been to the venue that begins with c and they were telling me that earlier this evening the police had been out to both venues , searching all the cars and handing out producers .
I think this has got way out of hand now . Its a saturday night and all over the town there will be fights and all kind of urgent stuff,yet they choose to target a car park away from residents to hassle people causing no trouble at all . Ok at venue C it may be due to the boy racers and stolen cars but it just stinks to me over the police going crazy !!!
Anyway,to the guys in the three other cars (I was the guy in the small silver car) hope you managed to find some luck and hope everyone had a good and safe night.
Cheers all,
Steve
Quote by tq
Hi Steve and all
Just to add my four penneth about the Maidstone site. Have been going again recently at different times and not found any police activity (maybe I'm just lucky).
The camera is over one side so stay in middle or far side to cafe. And of course with spring the leaves grow and more natural cover is available.
So saying though have not seen many couples recently, maybe it's still a tadd on the cold side.
TQ

Cheers TQ , you have just saved me many hours of hiding in bushes looking for cams instead of couples !!!! lol
Think your right , in my experience theres far more activity when the weather is warmer , also i noticed the car park is now very well potholed which is a pain when you have just washed the car and end up driving through muddy reservoirs!!!!
Thanks again,
Steve
Quote by Jackie and Ben
Hi All
Regarding the beach area you will have to be very careful with daytime fun as we have been approached by police twice last year asking if we had been exposed to unwanted attention. Just as well they didnt ask about the wanted attention lol
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Hi Jackie and Ben,
Its one of those venues i would have thought would be a no go for daytime fun,but last year went over a few times during the summer between 10pm-2am at a results really but even when it was dead it was nice to sit on the beach !!!! smile
However i remember the field just as you got on to the track used to be a boy racer area for a long time but havent seen many venture all the way to the venue , and no reports so far of trouble although with the width of the track it could be a place to possibly get blocked into so i guess its back to common sense and just if you see the boy racers about just take good care.
All the best,
Steve
Quote by Funkentcouple2002
Hi Steve,
The site that you mention near Maidstone is now a shadow of its former self, what with the camera, tree's and bushes trimmed back, regular police patrols, boy racers etc etc butttt there is still some activity there, just a case of persevering! lol.

Hi Mark and Sue,
Yeah noticed things had been cut back but i didnt even notice the camera !!!! You have probably ruined my chances now as ill park up and spend all my time looking for the camera and miss any int lights being flashed! lol wink
Seen a few boy racers there saturday night stocked up with hamburgers and elizabeth duke gold chains round near the food hut but i just drove on my way out down the middle section and didnt get any real abuse but i can see them outnumbering us these days :cry:
Again not trying to give a location away so ill be semi vague but i always wondered why the nearby golf course car park was never used for late night fun as its well away from residential areas , secluded from the main road and wouldnt cause traffic problems . Its a public course but im wondering if the boys in blue would classify it as private land . Maybe one to think about for the future ?
All the best,
Steve
Quote by stevejk
Hi people i dont post very often.I gave up dogging for a while,due to health reasons.I used to use the site near now though cameras boys in to have great fun used the layby that is supposed to be is still used,by couples and gays.I know a few others as well.I have helped organise a few meetings around north kent.I helped organise a couple of magic hat meets with ukrudegirl.

Hi Steve,
Always good to hear from folk in the area . Sorry to hear about the health probs,been down that road too but hope your fit and well now.
Hmmmmmmm i was pretty sure the layby had closed or was penned to be shut down very have to go up and check on it soon.
Cheers,
Steve
If you are talking about the one near the family resaurant/fast food outlet, then I wouldn't go there if I was you. Under close observation by the boys in blue...
Would love to hear of other places in that area though. Although I'm in Kent I don't know that area too well - more an side person

Now that will teach me to reply before i have read all the threads ! lol
Yep i think thats the venue in question,or at least the same one im thinking of...not giving it away but i think the food place is related to a small cook ? If so were on the same wavelength.
I only know a couple of venues in the north but happy to pass them on,however they arent places i would go on a spur of the moment thing,best left when you know theres going to be people there as it may end up a long wasted journey.
Cheers,
Steve
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Hi MedwaySteve, welcome to the site, really hope you have fun.
We visit Maidstone a couple of times a year and have always managed to find some great sites just by driving round. Is the big layby still used? (wont mention the name on here but sure you know which I mean) I heard it was due to be closed?
Sorry I can give you any help on sites in your area as I dont know the name of them, we just found them by chance!
Good luck and have fun.

Hi NWC,
Thanks for your reply and kind welcome to a forum newbie !!! lol
The one i think you mean is all but dead now , if it hasnt been closed already its very soon to be . Think there was alot of complaints from lorry drivers (Geez you would have thought they would have used it instead of reported it!!! :P ) and locals about it,which is a shame as it did get fairly active ! Im thinking once the weathers better of trying the one on sheppey as i know its well out of the way....and on the beach too which is a nice bonus! If ever your down this way let me know and i can give you good directions as the ones on the sites i have seen are a bit confusing when its actually very very easy to find !
Thanks again and good luck,
Steve
Quote by Wife2shag
Hi - we are in Kent, near T Wells, Tonbridge,. Found a small car park in Pembury an RSPB site - been a couple of times - and had fun. If you want more infor please get in touch.
Regards N & H

Hi N & H,
Id heard about that place from someone else i know but didnt know how active it was . Sadly due to certain circumstances i cant travel to far from where i am so maidstone is ideal . However things should change soon so im always open to good kent venues and always happy to stay in touch with people that use them as i think in the growing climate of boy racers and intimidation they are giving people then its always good to have some friends on hand smile
Many thanks,
Steve
Hello all,
Long been a viewer of the forum and time for me to dive in ! Great site and major kudos to Mark and all for keeping it run very well and for the most part for everyone keeping it friendly too (Doesnt happen that often on the net !!! lol )
I have spent the last week looking around the Maidstone area at the locations listed , mostly at the location in Aylesford (I noticed in the rules about not mentioning actual locations so i hope this is sort of vague enough but think everyone knows the one i mean)
I have seen conflicting reports all over the place about it,some saying its getting back up to speed,some saying its dead,some saying its mainly gay now etc (Im Hetro so that doesnt interest me,but everyone has a right to fun!) . I havent been there during the day but been heading in late evening as well as early hours even until 5am but not even another car to be seen most times . Did notice though the boys in blue flying around on the main road a fair amount so could be the reason why !
Just wondering if anyone can update me on the situation at the moment . Or if there are other fellow doggers in the Maidstone/Medway area id love to hear from you either by message on here or email so we can swap info and up to date venues . Always happy to hear from anyone :lol:
Well stay safe all and have fun and hope to get to know everyone a little better very soon.
Cheers,
Steve