Having been on the scene for some years now, I am getting a better picture of who I am looking for, which does not include men simply after a quick one-night bonk. I prefer BLACK MEN (SO IF YOU'RE NOT BLACK, READ NO FURTHER) and I only practise safe sex. Really not into body hair.

Good company, intelligent and witty conversation, good wine and food are all esential elements of each time we meet.

I am only interested in sex with someone with whom I feel the right chemistry, so meeting me will not automatically mean things get physical. When the chemistry is right though, I love being seduced. A long, slow, sensual back massage, which slowly becomes more and more erotic is a big turn on!

I'm looking for someone sensual, discrete and sensitive, who will value and respect me and is looking for a longer term friendship with delicious benefits!

I am not interested in married men, so if you are married, please don't bother with your rationalisation - I am not interested!!

I have a partner - a black man on here, we are interested in meeting another interracial couple if you are what we are both looking for.

DON'T BOTHER SENDING ME A "I'd like to know more" message - I WILL NOT REPLY