To save time, well start with this ....

******NO SINGLE MALES AT ALL. NO EXCEPTIONS NO MATTER HOW TEMPTING YOU TRY MAKE THE PROSPECT SOUND TO US/LIPS!!!!!!! HAD BAD EXPERIENCES WITH SERIOUSLY SICK FUCKS SO AGAIN, NO EXCEPTIONS!!!ANY WHISPERS THAT ARE SENT FROM A SINGLE MALE WILL BE IGNORED, THIS IS NOT RUDENESS ON OUR BEHALF, LIPS/WE JUST DONT WANT TO 'WATCH YOU CUM/WANK' WONT DIRTY TALK & AS FLATTERING AS IT IS, KNOW, CAN GO WITH OUT THE 'YOUR MAKING ME HORNY' LINE!!******

I (adventurous) have been on sites for a few years whilst single off & on, but have been with my lady (lips) 2 years now. I told her of my membership & introduced her to the site I was on, Swinging Heaven, a year into our relationship with the idea of camming - she surprised me & went for it same night. But - we're still 'new' to this as a Cpl.

Being on similar site for few years when single, I am more experienced, have the understanding & on a level with this than Ms & had a couple of meets when single with single ladies. But, away from site we both have had varying experiences in our pasts.

Ms is new & nervous, but open minded & steadily getting braver & more confident with the scene & its possibilities with cam & chats & is starting to rediscover her 'open minded & adventurous teenage promiscuity'
We've had some seriously awesome & well recieved open cam sessions on swinging heaven chat rooms, hitting max number of watchers very early into venturing into it. Had private cams, but felt they were - in comparison to the buzz & reception from our open experiences - 'disapointing'.
This of course could be simply no chemistry, interests or 'click' between us & the couples, or that actually - were deviant, self indulging (albeit amateure) voyueristic, show offs!!!

From this, Lips has looked into the Dogging community, the ettiequte in its practices & clubs like AbFabs, VA & City slickers parties all with the prospect of dipping toes & venturing into these scenes as a collective first step. We have just recently (may 2015) registered with The Vanilla Alternative club & Le Boudoir & are hoping to visit either or both soon when free time permits us. Hopefully end of June. (Update: booked & added to Le Boudoir guest list for our first experience in July!! Nervous excitement aplenty!!)

She is also contemplating the idea of same room sex with just us & another similar cpl, no swap, no soft play between us & couple, just as a starting block into the more 'intimate' 'personal' & 'involved' side of the scene.

Would ideally like first experience to be with couple of same level/understanding/experience as is but this is obviously, a 'sensitively negotiable' preference based on other Cpls (if experienced) understanding & acknowledgement of our boundaries.

Main aim is seeing if & where this may lead us & the potential that come with it.
My ultimate fantasy (like most men) would be my girl & another. This, i can but keeping dreaming & hoping, but ladies, if she takes your fancy - keep asking - she MIGHT cave (one day) and moments do carry people away at times.

A good, friendly & trusting rapport with a couple is a must have. Social drinks with no expectations or intentions after we've exchanged a few messages with a cpl & have established what eachother wants to potentially gain from any possible meets & the understanding of eachothers limits & boundries is met is important. 

Online vs in person are very different & it's important that all are comfortable in eachothers company else it ain't gonna go anywhere is it?

We enjoy the social side of the lifestyle & friendly chats with likeminded couples. Not every wink or message is "SHAG US!" ... It's finding local like minded people that we can speak with about this.

To round off: We're a clean, clean shaven (we'd assume cleanliness is a given for all but do prefer shaven to not) chatty, happy, very much in love, sociable pair who are just looking & toying with the idea of broadening our sexual scope but not rushing or going to go where neither or one of us wants.

Discretion, respect for boundries & eachothers limits a MUST!
No pics, no chat.
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