Not sure what the trends are up North but there is a growth in guys hiring escorts for the night at Southwest Couples Clubs and Parties. This is getting more and more common, the men (usually old guys) turn up with ladies then split up within a short time and roam about hastling couples.
At one couples party recently I spoke to two women who were escorts and only came in with the guys in order to earn a hundred quid for four hours work each. The guys then proceeded to make thorough nuisances of themselves throughout the party.
Once some guys start to catch on to this it will spread like wildfire and wreck couples events.
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Do have to say this....there are plenty of bifems in this Newton Abbot/Exeter area but advertising couples too often insist on them turning up at their house un-accompanied by their husbands or boyfriends....now i don't know how anyone else feels about this but for us safety is a must so we find that couples who insist on bifems turning up alone should stop and think just how much they are asking.
I have met couples through this and other sites, but NEVER turn up without my husband, simply for safety reasons...and would never ask a bifem to turn up alone at our place.
I have met couples through this and other sites, but NEVER turn up without my husband, simply for safety reasons...and would never ask a bifem to turn up alone at our place.
We are staying in Looe midweek 10th through till 14th October....
Looking to meet Guys strictly under the age of 40, non smokers preferred...
If you are interested in meeting for an initial drink and chat on the 10th or 11th perhaps we can then have some sexy fun later in the week?
Please do not reply if you do not meet the age criteria or cannot meet next week.
Photo a must
Looking to meet Guys strictly under the age of 40, non smokers preferred...
If you are interested in meeting for an initial drink and chat on the 10th or 11th perhaps we can then have some sexy fun later in the week?
Please do not reply if you do not meet the age criteria or cannot meet next week.
Photo a must
Now there is obviously some momentum to this all..... There is no reason why these munches can't go on and grow. What is obvious is the genuine excitement and enthusiasm amongst those that went to the first one......
Munches are only ever as good as those who attend, and from what we can see Southwest Munches cannot fail to grow and grow in the future.
So anyone out there who considered attending the first one and never quite got around to coming, give it a go!..... Munches need support and the Southwest one was one of the best we have seen.
Jane
Munches are only ever as good as those who attend, and from what we can see Southwest Munches cannot fail to grow and grow in the future.
So anyone out there who considered attending the first one and never quite got around to coming, give it a go!..... Munches need support and the Southwest one was one of the best we have seen.
Jane
That's cool with us....we will come to the munch then shoot back to our hotel for a quick change for Westward Bound....
Used to flying around anyway....and will save us shelling out for friday night in a hotel as well.....which means more shoe money for me!!.... !
Hopefully being the same night as Westward it might see even more peeps coming out of the woodwork for the munch.
Used to flying around anyway....and will save us shelling out for friday night in a hotel as well.....which means more shoe money for me!!.... !
Hopefully being the same night as Westward it might see even more peeps coming out of the woodwork for the munch.
October 28th sounds great to us.....
We will be staying in Plymouth that weekend anyway for the Westward Bound Halloween Ball, just means we will book the hotel for the Friday as well, what a great excuse for a totally dirty weekend!
Look forward to the Kinky Coronation of the Earl of Swing...His Royal Horniness...The Prince of Pervonia....Dev1
Jane x
We will be staying in Plymouth that weekend anyway for the Westward Bound Halloween Ball, just means we will book the hotel for the Friday as well, what a great excuse for a totally dirty weekend!
Look forward to the Kinky Coronation of the Earl of Swing...His Royal Horniness...The Prince of Pervonia....Dev1
Jane x
I think that because of his sterling efforts in arranging last saturdays munch that Dev1 should be duly crowned as Southwest Munch King.
May I suggest another munch sometime soon to celebrate his new position?
Ok...it's just an excuse for another munch, but sounds good to us.
Incidentally....Plymouth did turn out to be a perfect setting for the munch after all and I would vote that it holds all future events. It's easy enough to get to for anyone who lives in the area and has an abundance of venues for munches.
Well done again.....King Dev!
Jane xxxx
May I suggest another munch sometime soon to celebrate his new position?
Ok...it's just an excuse for another munch, but sounds good to us.
Incidentally....Plymouth did turn out to be a perfect setting for the munch after all and I would vote that it holds all future events. It's easy enough to get to for anyone who lives in the area and has an abundance of venues for munches.
Well done again.....King Dev!
Jane xxxx
We are wondering if all that failed to turn up offered some form of explanation to the organiser?
It's just that we know the enormous amount of effort put into it by Devon1 to organise the evening, just hope that those that never showed up had the courtesy of letting Devon1 know in advance or at least have sent their apologies since.
Jane xxxxx
It's just that we know the enormous amount of effort put into it by Devon1 to organise the evening, just hope that those that never showed up had the courtesy of letting Devon1 know in advance or at least have sent their apologies since.
Jane xxxxx
The chatroom was on another site (Local Swingers) the ID they were using is just throwaway....there was no way of knowing just who they were on the guest list except that they were on Local Swingers as a Single Male.
Got my suspicions of who it is but that's another story, won't stop us from coming on Saturday anyway.....
Never mind.....you always get one idiot!
Got my suspicions of who it is but that's another story, won't stop us from coming on Saturday anyway.....
Never mind.....you always get one idiot!
Talking on a chatroom last night and saw the munch and venue being openly talked about.
Nice to see that one person at least can't keep his or her big mouth shut!
Don't know why I am surprised really, this is the self same thing that ruined dogging at Exeter.....
Anyway, it won't scare us off and we will see you all there on Saturday!!
Nice to see that one person at least can't keep his or her big mouth shut!
Don't know why I am surprised really, this is the self same thing that ruined dogging at Exeter.....
Anyway, it won't scare us off and we will see you all there on Saturday!!
Don't worry folks, it's only a social!
Lots of people will be nervous, it's only natural...But if it's anything like the socials we have been to in the past you will find it a very relaxing and fun evening.
If everyone goes with the same relaxed thought this event will prove to be fantastic I am sure. You may not get a better chance to meet others from the site, just go with the intention of having a chilled night out and remembering it's not an orgy and we will all have an evening to remember...and hopefully the first of many.
J
Lots of people will be nervous, it's only natural...But if it's anything like the socials we have been to in the past you will find it a very relaxing and fun evening.
If everyone goes with the same relaxed thought this event will prove to be fantastic I am sure. You may not get a better chance to meet others from the site, just go with the intention of having a chilled night out and remembering it's not an orgy and we will all have an evening to remember...and hopefully the first of many.
J
For some Couples early evening or even late afternoon fun at Exeter is far more satisfying. For one thing you don't get all the boy racers tearing around the carparks and another plus for us is that guys seem decidedly more courteous and decent when they haven't got the darkness to hide behind.
We wouldNEVERgo top Exeter after dark again, in fact we know many couples who are of the same mind.
We wouldNEVERgo top Exeter after dark again, in fact we know many couples who are of the same mind.
We got so completely fed up with Exeter after dark that we now only go early evening when the place is quieter and safer. Exeter later in the night is a farce....
Too many pushy old men and increasing amount of inconsiderate watchers who think that even following you home is within their allowances.
Most of all it's the old guys who have deterred us from going to Exeter when it is dark, one old fart even tried our door handle one night.....
We find that anyone who is prepared to show their face in the the light of early evening is generally more trustworthy and less creepy. We have even witnessed one guy who wore a ski mask one night in the spring....Just imagine having a guy who looked like the Yorkshire Ripper gazing through your car window late one night!....
So no more Exeter after dark for us....
There is a far more friendlier and safer venue just six or seven miles away down the A38 (South) that seems to attract far more decent and courteous watchers.
So that is the only place we venture once the sun has gone down....
Too many pushy old men and increasing amount of inconsiderate watchers who think that even following you home is within their allowances.
Most of all it's the old guys who have deterred us from going to Exeter when it is dark, one old fart even tried our door handle one night.....
We find that anyone who is prepared to show their face in the the light of early evening is generally more trustworthy and less creepy. We have even witnessed one guy who wore a ski mask one night in the spring....Just imagine having a guy who looked like the Yorkshire Ripper gazing through your car window late one night!....
So no more Exeter after dark for us....
There is a far more friendlier and safer venue just six or seven miles away down the A38 (South) that seems to attract far more decent and courteous watchers.
So that is the only place we venture once the sun has gone down....
Perhaps I can offer a few pointers regarding premises for munches/Club Meets.
Finding a stand alone function room on a Friday or Saturday would prove to be most difficult in places like Exeter...Plymouth...or Bristol.
I say this from experience of holding Couples events in the Southwest for the last Eighteen months, one of the major obstacles for us has been finding premises on weekends. Even renting a small club in Exeter on a Thursday is nearly Two Hundred Pounds...and that's without paying for security doormen and DJ for the night.
So the best way to go is to just find a pub that is a bit quieter on a weekend, they do exist in some places (Not in Exeter due to the large University)
We have in the past used a public Pub disco in South Devon that is open once a month, it was ideal for mixed nights and because it was a low key country pub disco we never all stood out like sore thumbs!
We will make ever effort to attend the munch, Plymouth sounds a good place to hold it.
We are out of the country soon for a month but will be most interested in coming along.
'J'
Finding a stand alone function room on a Friday or Saturday would prove to be most difficult in places like Exeter...Plymouth...or Bristol.
I say this from experience of holding Couples events in the Southwest for the last Eighteen months, one of the major obstacles for us has been finding premises on weekends. Even renting a small club in Exeter on a Thursday is nearly Two Hundred Pounds...and that's without paying for security doormen and DJ for the night.
So the best way to go is to just find a pub that is a bit quieter on a weekend, they do exist in some places (Not in Exeter due to the large University)
We have in the past used a public Pub disco in South Devon that is open once a month, it was ideal for mixed nights and because it was a low key country pub disco we never all stood out like sore thumbs!
We will make ever effort to attend the munch, Plymouth sounds a good place to hold it.
We are out of the country soon for a month but will be most interested in coming along.
'J'
Just wondered if this is a booking in a private room of a pub?....only living in Exeter I know only too well just how packed EVERY Exeter pub is on Saturday nights.
Might be difficult to expect to find seats in any Exeter pub on a Saturday night...being a University City and all that.
Do have to ask if it therefore wise making the meet on a Saturday night?
Invisage everyone turning up to a completely packed pub and not being able to sit together...which is needed for a social meet.
Might be difficult to expect to find seats in any Exeter pub on a Saturday night...being a University City and all that.
Do have to ask if it therefore wise making the meet on a Saturday night?
Invisage everyone turning up to a completely packed pub and not being able to sit together...which is needed for a social meet.
Weather permitting....this coming Sunday (19th) will make a good day for some daylight walking in the woods at Exeter half dressed....
BUT....only looking to meet younger guys under the age of 30 to watch us this time, have noticed that the voyeurs at Exeter are getting older and older, no disrespect but would prefer younger guys this time.
Only looking for watchers at this moment in time...have players.
'J'
BUT....only looking to meet younger guys under the age of 30 to watch us this time, have noticed that the voyeurs at Exeter are getting older and older, no disrespect but would prefer younger guys this time.
Only looking for watchers at this moment in time...have players.
'J'
Quote...."It won't be long before the whole swinging thing dies out altogether!"
You could not be more wrong if you tried!!!....
Swinging has never been so popular in the UK as it is at this moment in time, the Internet and sites like this have been like food for swinging....the Internet has helped swinging to grow bigger and better almost by the week. Sites like SH are aiding more curious people than any other media.
We run a monthly Couples Social meet for swingers, particularly aimed at newbies and swing-curious couples. Every month we see more and more new faces at the social night and we get dozens of phone queries about the events every week.
Now if this is swinging dying out then I must be missing something here....
You could not be more wrong if you tried!!!....
Swinging has never been so popular in the UK as it is at this moment in time, the Internet and sites like this have been like food for swinging....the Internet has helped swinging to grow bigger and better almost by the week. Sites like SH are aiding more curious people than any other media.
We run a monthly Couples Social meet for swingers, particularly aimed at newbies and swing-curious couples. Every month we see more and more new faces at the social night and we get dozens of phone queries about the events every week.
Now if this is swinging dying out then I must be missing something here....
