Hi Folks
Just scanned a few posts on here, agree with most of these posts and my blood boils at the injustice in others
I used to love dogging, started in 1991 (yes it was going as far back as then) and it died a death with me about 1998-9
I used to frequent the popular Nottingham spots, Blidworth, Clumber..and heres one if you don't believe about how long i've been around.... Fanny's Grove.... A sweetie for anyone that remembers that location and the people that used to go there.
it was a wonderful heady period in my life, 2 or 3 couples, 5 or 6 guys, at each location, full of respect and all enjoying each other, no rules just common sense...
Then one couple (who shall remain nameless but will reveal privately if asked) wrecked it all. forever
Couldn't stay happy with this. Had to publicise it all on the net cos they wanted more couples...
What happened??? a couple more couples came and about 20-30 maurauding blokes that subsequently ripped the soul out of dogging.
Self appointed captains (overbearing bullies) organising queues, threats of cars being smashed up, higher police profile, couples being chased in cars by a dozen single blokes in cars...need i go on???
Some popular dogging spots have become graveyards now. A couple I know went to Birdlip the other week...she with the longest legs in the world and cutoff shorts...no one around....
Dogging???? RIP...it was good while it lasted
MoggyMuncha (ad 125300)
PS. Not starting a thread, just getting it off my chest after reading about bournemouth etc
I have always been told I make a very bad first impression. I was told that I seemed to be very 'imposing'
This was told to me by my boss would you believe. I still work for him after 23 yrs though so it can't all be bad
To be serious though. I do very often have problems with this 'first impression' but people that have come to know me have stayed with me....
MoggyM
I knew of a couple that had very much wanted to swing for years.
They made countless appointments with many 'genuine' couple and no one ever turned up.
He was 54 and she was 36. He may have been a bit old but he was a handsome old devil so its wasn't a case of people turning up and running in the other direction. Apart from which, he was straight and only interested in sharing her. She apparently was sex on very long legs....
Looking from the outside in, I have very much come to the conclusion its a malaise of the swinging/dogging/;free sex scene particularly exacerbated by the following....
There are an awful lot of people out there on the Net, sat behind PCs pretending to be something they're not. They seemingly get their kicks with one hand on a mouse and the other on their w*lly and will tell you anything you want to hear as long as they get what they want, a W**k maybe with the bonus of watching you on a web cam
Now I am always ready to listen and am willing to be convinced otherwise but it will be difficult
MoggyM
I think its true both ways
I knew of at least 2 (married couples (55M, 33F and 54M 36F) where the guy is a lot older than the lady
I supose this may be because ladies appreciate not being treated like a kid by a kid... Maybe just an attitude thing???
MoggyM
I know us mene are so lucky
After all we only have two things wrong with us that we have to deal with....
Everything we say and everything we do....
MoggyM x
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Moggy