I'm a tall 6'4") well educated and well travelled married man. Like many on here I'm playing away, I'm just upfront and honest about it.

I have many friends, but want just one special one that makes me tingle every time we meet, or even when I see she has texted me. That connection is vitally important to me.

I love kissing, cuddling and of course sex. But life is about so much more.

Some questions I have already been asked and the answers:

Are you solvent? I am financially secure, unless the question was about drug abuse, in which case no I'm not a solvent.

Are you really tall? I'm 6'4" like my profile says.....

Are you able to meet daytimes? Yes, they work really well for me as I'm awake then. I also meet evenings as long I am in bed by the witching hour bad things won't happen!

Are you just after sex? Well actually, no. If all you want is a quick bonk I'm not your guy. (Thought the blokes asked these questions).

What is your favourite date: If I had no limits it would be a trip across Lago Di Garda and dinner by the lakeside. Otherwise its a nice meal with someone I feel something for.

I don't respond to random friends invites and I won't approach you if you patently not put any effort into your profile. If you can't be bothered to put effort into your profile I don't believe you would into any relationship. Sorry if that's harsh, but argue with me if you think I'm wrong by all means.

I dress smart casual when I not working, otherwise I'm suited and booted. I carry more weight than I like but I enjoy life and I refuse to conform to others rules. I'm not a body fascist, although if you need help moving then I'm not your guy.

I have considerable freedom in my personal life so can enjoy daytimes or evenings (or when called for overnight).

Fun above all else. Lots of intimacy, nights away, lunch, walks, social times. A friend with special features perhaps? I like open and honest people. If you don't kiss nicely then I don't think there is any point. A kiss for me is the window to all future possibilities. I need to feel that warm glow and be turned on just by a kiss.