I'm a retired professional, 67, 5'11", 13st 3lbs, well educated, articulate, fit,& healthy, with a nice all-over tan. I've been married for 43 years, and my wife is my best friend. However, sexually she has lost interest in the physical side of marriage, and thinks that sex is for younger people. Not something I agree with, hence my registering on this site. Since I find that honesty is the best starting point, she does not know that I am on the site, nor, I suspect, would she fully approve.

I don't think that I am entirely unique in the circumstances, however, and having been open-minded all my life (my mother was a naturist), it would be nice to share my interests with someone in, perhaps, the same situation, who would enjoy a little flattery, some shared intimacy and perhaps excitement, whether in person (depending on location), or at least by message / chat / camera. Cybersex is nothing like as good as the real thing, but with the right person and a little imagination it can still be very exciting. I am very good at massage, and as a very good photographer, would love to take some mature modelling pictures - however intimate - if that's what floats your boat.

I would love to find a mature married lady or couple (I dont rule out singles, but feel I could not probably give them the sort of thing that they might be looking for dinners, weekends away etc), someone articulate, professional perhaps, a career lady who might enjoy having a secret friend with who we could share thoughts, desires, dreams, just something to add that little sparkle to our busy lives, fill in the little part that otherwise might be missing from an otherwise satisfactory life.

Similarly,if there were a professional couple who would like to add a third person to their relationship, I would be very happy to make up a threesome - I have some experience, and with the right people, a threesome can be very sensual. I am quite at home whether the male is straight or bi-, I'm non-judgemental and very open-minded, so whatever your pleasure, if I could add to it I would be happy to try!

While I don't imagine any upper age limit ( I have the utmost admiration for mature ladies who are still confident with their bodies and their sexuality, however old) I suspect that anyone under 55 might be looking for more than a mature professional might be able to give.

Do you fit the bill? Might you be interested? If so, I would love to hear from you and, in exchange, tell you more about myself. You may rest assured that I am 100% discreet, and would expect the same from any friend. If you are married, then you will understand how important this is, and appreciate how hard we would work to keep such a friendship confidential. I would like to think that such a friendship might be the icing on the cake which I would love rather than having a slice of the cake itself!

The fact that you are on here at all suggests that you would like something extra in your life. If you think that I might be what you are looking for, then please tell me a bit more about yourself - I don't generally reply to "one liners" or to anything which seems to have been sent out on a "scattergun" approach - I prefer quality to quantity, so if you make the effort, so will I! Why not give me a try?