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We are looking for some fun tomorrow, anyone who is local and likes the look of our ad, please send us a pm with a bit about you and what you are looking for and we will get back to you ASAP.
It may be late notice so do leave an email address we can get you on just in case
Take care
Rich n Mel xx
We are looking for some fun tomorrow, anyone who is local and likes the look of our ad, please send us a pm with a bit about you and what you are looking for and we will get back to you ASAP.
It may be late notice so do leave an email address we can get you on just in case
Take care
Rich n Mel xx
Sorry Mark but Norfolk is just not full of swingers.
If I was you I would move straight back to Manchester. However there are 2 clubs in Norfolk worth a look. Both are listed over on the Clubs page. Just a warning though they are nothing like the clubs up north.
Good Luck on your search and I am sure if you get yourself known at the clubs then you will soon find what you are looking for
If I was you I would move straight back to Manchester. However there are 2 clubs in Norfolk worth a look. Both are listed over on the Clubs page. Just a warning though they are nothing like the clubs up north.
Good Luck on your search and I am sure if you get yourself known at the clubs then you will soon find what you are looking for
I am going to make a stab at answering this but may completely get the wrong end of the stick so to speak. If I do just ignore me and I will fade away.
Anyway I turned this around and asked myself how do Mrs NC and me label ourselves. Well we are Husband and Wife and Parents which I guess are our 2 main labels in life which will (I hope) stay till we fall off this mortal coil. Where do we go after that because as people there is more to us than that.
So I came to the swinging question, are we swingers?
Well yes we swing but does that mean that we should label ourselves Swingers. In my opinion No we are not swingers nor are we non-swingers in the sense of labelling ourselves.
Are we bi-sexual or straight?
Well I have never been with another man, does that make me straight?. Mrs NC likes playing with women so what is she labelled. Well thinking about this I came to the conclusion that she like me does not need a label for her sexuality.
Ok I will now attempt to explain how I came to the decision that we are not labelled for our choices. Answer the following questions for yourself.
I occassionally play a game of football, am I a footballer or am I Mr NC playing football?
In my spare time I like taking pictures for pleasure, am I a photographer or am I Mr NC who enjoys taking pics in his spare time.
What I think I am trying to say is that there are many factors which influence who we are and what we are and if we attached the label for each "activity" that we undertook then we would all have a pretty long list. I think we are defined by the important thinks in life and I would like to be labelled as a Husband, Father who enjoyed flirting, laughing, etc etc and not defined by my sexuality and sexual choices which at the end of the day are a hobby, they are not the main stays in my life more like added extras.
Anyway I am going to stop rambling now on the basis that I am not sure if I have just spoken some sense or a load of old codswallop, and I fear its the latter.
Anyway I shall fade away now and hope you all forgive my ramblings.
Mr NC
PS now you know why I dont post that often
Anyway I turned this around and asked myself how do Mrs NC and me label ourselves. Well we are Husband and Wife and Parents which I guess are our 2 main labels in life which will (I hope) stay till we fall off this mortal coil. Where do we go after that because as people there is more to us than that.
So I came to the swinging question, are we swingers?
Well yes we swing but does that mean that we should label ourselves Swingers. In my opinion No we are not swingers nor are we non-swingers in the sense of labelling ourselves.
Are we bi-sexual or straight?
Well I have never been with another man, does that make me straight?. Mrs NC likes playing with women so what is she labelled. Well thinking about this I came to the conclusion that she like me does not need a label for her sexuality.
Ok I will now attempt to explain how I came to the decision that we are not labelled for our choices. Answer the following questions for yourself.
I occassionally play a game of football, am I a footballer or am I Mr NC playing football?
In my spare time I like taking pictures for pleasure, am I a photographer or am I Mr NC who enjoys taking pics in his spare time.
What I think I am trying to say is that there are many factors which influence who we are and what we are and if we attached the label for each "activity" that we undertook then we would all have a pretty long list. I think we are defined by the important thinks in life and I would like to be labelled as a Husband, Father who enjoyed flirting, laughing, etc etc and not defined by my sexuality and sexual choices which at the end of the day are a hobby, they are not the main stays in my life more like added extras.
Anyway I am going to stop rambling now on the basis that I am not sure if I have just spoken some sense or a load of old codswallop, and I fear its the latter.
Anyway I shall fade away now and hope you all forgive my ramblings.
Mr NC
PS now you know why I dont post that often
Jezzay our hearts go out to you. We know how happy you were when you met Adam, and how unhappy you were before you met him. I think the problem here is that you want the best of both worlds, you want someone to wake up with but also someone to go swinging with.
Ok Adam might not have the passion that you seek but is everything else is fine in your relationship? if it is then try and find the passion. There are times when every couple loses the passion and only by talking about what we want can both parties be happy.
Therefore our suggestion would be to sitting Adam down, explain to him why you are unsettled, explain to him that you are a swinger and that you would like to explore this side of life with him etc etc. Adam might run a mile then again he might surprise you and you could end up in a menage a trois on Friday
Best of luck whatever you decide
Take care
Rich n Mel
PS New swinging club opening in yarmouth at weekend if you fancy
Ok Adam might not have the passion that you seek but is everything else is fine in your relationship? if it is then try and find the passion. There are times when every couple loses the passion and only by talking about what we want can both parties be happy.
Therefore our suggestion would be to sitting Adam down, explain to him why you are unsettled, explain to him that you are a swinger and that you would like to explore this side of life with him etc etc. Adam might run a mile then again he might surprise you and you could end up in a menage a trois on Friday
Best of luck whatever you decide
Take care
Rich n Mel
PS New swinging club opening in yarmouth at weekend if you fancy
does Col pay a set amount each month as well? I can't work out from what has been said if he does or not.
If he does then she has no right to ask for more, if he doesnt then you need to decide whether it is better for you to meet her demands or be taken to the CSA for a set amount each week, which can as be stated be 30% of Col's wage.
If he does then she has no right to ask for more, if he doesnt then you need to decide whether it is better for you to meet her demands or be taken to the CSA for a set amount each week, which can as be stated be 30% of Col's wage.
I agree I think some of the 60's and 80's music is much better than some of the manufactured crap produced today.
Must admit I know all the songs you have mentioned and they are not bad at all. I have to admit to being a bit of a Lionel Ritchie fan as well - Dancing on the ceiling and all that.
Must admit I know all the songs you have mentioned and they are not bad at all. I have to admit to being a bit of a Lionel Ritchie fan as well - Dancing on the ceiling and all that.
Definitely sad listening to the Carpenters More an Elvis fan myself 
As for why we listen to sad songs when we are sad, my theory is that we are looking to connect with the feelings that are making us sad and the lyrics of the songs help us identify with our sadness and in some way give us comfort. I personally love the Oasis song Stop Crying Your Heart Out. I often listen to it when I am feeling down.
Not feeling down now but here comes the song, sing it with me :karaoke:
Mr NC
More an Elvis fan myself As for why we listen to sad songs when we are sad, my theory is that we are looking to connect with the feelings that are making us sad and the lyrics of the songs help us identify with our sadness and in some way give us comfort. I personally love the Oasis song Stop Crying Your Heart Out. I often listen to it when I am feeling down.
Not feeling down now but here comes the song, sing it with me :karaoke:
Mr NC
Jiggle, as we have said to you, you have to follow your heart and do what is right for you. We are sure that as this has happened once, people will now be more respectful and aware of your boundaries and you will never be put in such a situation again.
Give it time and we are sure you will feel confident enough to attend munches again. In the meantime you are more than welcome to have a visit to sunny Norfolk :P
Take care Jiggle
Give it time and we are sure you will feel confident enough to attend munches again. In the meantime you are more than welcome to have a visit to sunny Norfolk :P
Take care Jiggle
ok Dirtydoggers think we may have put our point across badly.
There are plenty of couples in Norfolk looking for single males. Like you rightly said only a few use the internet and of the few that do how many use swinging heaven?. There are not many norfolk couples regiestered here.
As for active couples in Norfolk then there are a few. For instance Satruday night we were out and went to 2 well known sites in Norwich and one not so well known out of Norwich. At all sites we saw at least one couple playing. So as for dogging couples in Norfolk being scarce thats not true.
What I was referring to was the fact that the men outnumber the couples greatly with regards to meeting in private.
Anyway hope we all find what we want
There are plenty of couples in Norfolk looking for single males. Like you rightly said only a few use the internet and of the few that do how many use swinging heaven?. There are not many norfolk couples regiestered here.
As for active couples in Norfolk then there are a few. For instance Satruday night we were out and went to 2 well known sites in Norwich and one not so well known out of Norwich. At all sites we saw at least one couple playing. So as for dogging couples in Norfolk being scarce thats not true.
What I was referring to was the fact that the men outnumber the couples greatly with regards to meeting in private.
Anyway hope we all find what we want
ok k9 we will forgive you this once.
As for lack of couples in norfolk you are right. Norfolk has a severe lack of couples who are interested in single men. The reasons why I dont know, but I think, that as usual the supply far exceeds the demand.
All I can suggest is that you join in on the forums and chat to people on here, because personally we would never meet up with a single guy off here because of a one line post he has made.
Get an ad and a face pic, get yourself known and maybe one day in the distant future you might what you are looking for. Just remember that every couple has their pick of hundreds of single guys so make yourself stand out.
Hope this helps
As for lack of couples in norfolk you are right. Norfolk has a severe lack of couples who are interested in single men. The reasons why I dont know, but I think, that as usual the supply far exceeds the demand.
All I can suggest is that you join in on the forums and chat to people on here, because personally we would never meet up with a single guy off here because of a one line post he has made.
Get an ad and a face pic, get yourself known and maybe one day in the distant future you might what you are looking for. Just remember that every couple has their pick of hundreds of single guys so make yourself stand out.
Hope this helps
I just wanted to say that I could agree more with what you have said Judy.
Spring is here and its time to move on with life. I for one have had a rough few years but after recovering from my illness I am now ready to go back to work
And to top it all I have just been offered a job interview for more money than I was on when I fell ill. :grin:
Right I am off to swot up, press a shirt and sit waiting for next Friday to come
Spring is here and its time to move on with life. I for one have had a rough few years but after recovering from my illness I am now ready to go back to work
And to top it all I have just been offered a job interview for more money than I was on when I fell ill. :grin:
Right I am off to swot up, press a shirt and sit waiting for next Friday to come
