We have been married for 16 years together 18 in both think about swinging but never acted on it as fantasies mainly involve Alison having sex with another man or men, while I watch.I encourage Alison to wear miniskirts, with her leather knee high boots, as I like her to look as sexy as she were close to going ot an Adult party when we first got married, but at the time decided against have got young kids now, but i feel as they are growing up I want to try to focus Alison on swapping thoughts maybe that she chooses to not go ahead with any of it, but I shall keep trying and joining this site should help.