Not quiet at all mate you just need to get out there. There's plenty going on
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Bucksfuncpl are a top couple. Have met them a few times now and they're great. Bucks is exceedingly lively now as are parts of Oxon and I'm sure regular doggers in other counties will testify that their areas are too. Lets all get out there and make 2006 a year to remember.
Hiya
Let me know when you're out and about and I'll try and be there x
Dave
How did it go the other night fireflies?
Dave
No Rob it's not a cpls only thing. We're all out there most nights looking for fun and it's not restricted to couples. As a single male we just have to be all the more respectful, don't invade peoples space and obey the dogging ettiquette. It takes time to get established as a safe reliable dogger. People won't share info with you if your sat in your car and they won't tell you mush straightaway when you get out. you need to build up a network of trust. It's word of mouth one dogger knows another and will tell them your ok and can be trusted. Don't go out thinking it will happen everytime and be prepared to have a chat and get your face known around the area.
Hi mate did you get any luck??
Dave
Superbly put Mal.
Was out last night Rob for 4 hours and saw nothing mate but had a good crack with a couple of lads in the car park. Just as we were leaving aroung midnight a couple came in and gave a little show. Not a complete waste of an evening and have some new contact numbers and some ideas for different places to try as well as having a show to round it off. If I worked the amount of hours I've put in in car parks I'd be a millionaire by now but I wouldn't have had half the fun!
Was out last night in Bucks as I pulled into the car park there were two cars. One had a single male the other a couple who I have met a few times and knew them to be fairly new to the scene and very nervous. After a while I approached the car and they were giving a very nice show and things were starting to get very interesting. Their nerves were obviously melting by the minute and the window was slightly ajar (although no offer to participate was made so I kept my distance). After a while there was a huge crash behind me that made me and the couple jump out of our skins (well he actually jumped out of somewhere else!). Unbeknown to us the driver of the other car had worked his way round the wooded area and was watching from the bushes. He had obviously tripped and fallen over. This immediately ended the show and the couple drove off. If your new to dogging please read the advice threads on this site. Don't hide, that's more like being a peeping tom. Doggers are open with each other don't get us a bad name. And if the guy in the bushes last night is reading this thanks for nothing. It's taken a long time for that couple to feel comfortable enough to show and you ruined it with your ignorance.
Rob are you sure dogging's for you? You don't want to get out of your car and your not sure you want to get involved. That's what it's all about mate. How will you meet anyone sitting in your car??
Dave
As requested silk! 4 couples said they were coming and two arrived. 50% not too bad an average. Good evening had by all. Nice to see some of the local places starting to get busy again. See you around silk
Dave x
Must be very unlucky then rob. Don't buy a lottery ticket mate!
Dave
Getting known is just a matter of time and patience. Not just using the websites because that doesn't prove anything. Anyone can post a thousand threads and seem genuine. Get out there and get round some sites. Be patient, respectful and talk to people. It will take time but the friendships you develop are well worth it.
Dave
Thanx to the two couples who've contacted already. Anymore??
Dave
Couples meet being arranged for tonight in Oxon.
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There are a few mate but it doesn't quite work like that. You won't get the info that easily. You need to get known in the area first.
Shall look forward to it Silk. Take care x
Hey Lou
Sorry you had such a bad experience. What a few of us have noticed is that dogging is gaining in popularity in many areas. Problem is people don't know the etiquette and expect to converge on a car the instant it pulls into a park. I have on many occassions warned eager men off of ruining a potential show. Maybe it's up to regular doggers to try and make sure we pass on the general ground rules. There are genuine people out there so don't let this experience put you off completely. I was in a car park last night with 5 other cars, 4 were single males and the other a couple. I know the couple and know that they had fun without once lighting up. No one approached the car and all males respected the couples wish to not show that night. Well done all you other men for not appoaching. Take your time Lou and maybe arrange a few meets first. Hope you find some genuine people soon.
Dave x
P.S. Yes Dip it's great that there is somewhere so close getting active again.
Have to agree with you Dip. Dogging is very much alive. Just because we're not using all the sites that are plastered all over the net for everyone to see doesn't mean it isn't happening. It's a case of watching and waiting. I've had many experiences lately and if anything it seems to be getting better.
Dave
Cheers to couple I met there Monday night. Great show. Hope the info for the other sites was useful and maybe we'll meet up in them sometime
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A certain spot near the M40 which was recently closed for repairs is now open again with a lovely new tarmac car park.
Hi all will be out and about tonight if anyone fancies to meet up.
Dave
Will be out tonight Oxon/bucks border if anyone fancies a meet
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Hey rob
don't be so negative mate. Great to see BFC out Sunday night. Mrs BFC was looking fabulous as always. Thanks for superb time. Hope to meet up again soon. Will probably be out tonight so hopefully will meet up with some great peeps again.
Dave
but i fear its not what most want to hear..for to do it for real, would involve time and effort..they'll slate the game any way they can to avoid that
