Ta polo lady, reckon I will.
And of course not. Women still mystify and scare the shit out of me. That's why I like 'em!
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What, a chat-room forum?
Would that really be best? There are lots of great people out there but one or two who seem to hang around just waiting for the opportunity to take the piss out of the wrong situation. These are usually the ones who respond to their fuck-ups by whining that no-one has a sense of humour.
Would that really be best? There are lots of great people out there but one or two who seem to hang around just waiting for the opportunity to take the piss out of the wrong situation. These are usually the ones who respond to their fuck-ups by whining that no-one has a sense of humour.
Well, Christmas is easy enough with support around you. Perhaps (and I'm not being flippant, I speak from experience) you should try something altruistic.
A few years ago I was feeling down in the dumps, alone, family away, g/f free etc so I went to Manchester on the spur of the moment and wound up in the Big Issue office, going out to soup kitchens and distributing blankets.
Met some f*cked-up people and cried more than once, I can tell you. Wouldn't change the day for a thing though. Without taking away from your (or anyone elses') personal griefs, it really put it in perspective for me.
We live in a mercenary society so be the same. Take pleasure from the free films, buy gifts for those you want to, tell Coca Cola and McDonalds to f*ck off back to America, help someone else and avoid the commerce. Try the countryside and speak to strangers, or try a massive get-together with the lovely people on this site!
Hope it's good for you, drop me an e-mail anytime if you want to chat about being down.
A few years ago I was feeling down in the dumps, alone, family away, g/f free etc so I went to Manchester on the spur of the moment and wound up in the Big Issue office, going out to soup kitchens and distributing blankets.
Met some f*cked-up people and cried more than once, I can tell you. Wouldn't change the day for a thing though. Without taking away from your (or anyone elses') personal griefs, it really put it in perspective for me.
We live in a mercenary society so be the same. Take pleasure from the free films, buy gifts for those you want to, tell Coca Cola and McDonalds to f*ck off back to America, help someone else and avoid the commerce. Try the countryside and speak to strangers, or try a massive get-together with the lovely people on this site!
Hope it's good for you, drop me an e-mail anytime if you want to chat about being down.
Ta for the advice zorbotics, great suggestion debbiewebs.
Well, I reckon, like any normal person, that I've to leave it up to her. I'll make it clear that it'd turn me on and I'm 100% and leave it at that. From her dildo to pics to the website to the webcam to the phone to the real thing: could work. I know we've been watched doing it ouside before and that REALLY got her off so there's hope yet.
Well, I reckon, like any normal person, that I've to leave it up to her. I'll make it clear that it'd turn me on and I'm 100% and leave it at that. From her dildo to pics to the website to the webcam to the phone to the real thing: could work. I know we've been watched doing it ouside before and that REALLY got her off so there's hope yet.
Thanks Juliett. Running the risk of sounding like a whiner, but we have talked about it in a general way, insomuch as she's gagging for a spit-roast (pardon the pun, crudity etc - her own words) but each time I try to suggest taking it further she gets upset in that she thinks it'll ruin us... although she does seem to have some regret in her voice when she turns it down. Look: I'm no psychic but I KNOW she wants it, it's just finding the right way to initiate it. I thought of "stumbling" across this website and letting her have a look around to see that the people here are perfectly normal... then I started reading the posts, lol!
Well, obviously I'm cheating but that's not the question. I love swinging and I love her and I want her to be involved so we can have a more fulfilling sex life.
I suppose I was a little unclear so I'll re-phrase it: how do I persuade her that, if she takes another man into our bed that this is ok and that it doesn't affect our love for each other?
Believe me, I'd give up swinging before I'd give her up but I know that, once she's taken the plunge she'd love it.
I suppose I was a little unclear so I'll re-phrase it: how do I persuade her that, if she takes another man into our bed that this is ok and that it doesn't affect our love for each other?
Believe me, I'd give up swinging before I'd give her up but I know that, once she's taken the plunge she'd love it.
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This is my first post so sorry to pose a serious question. I am fairly new to swinging (though taking to it like a duck to water!) and I would love my girlfriend to share the enjoyment. She has stated that she would love two guys at once but she has some issues, I think, regarding confusing love and lust. When she's horny it's something that gets her off but when we talk about it she seems to think that her going with someone else is unfaithful and a sign that she doesn't love me and vice-versa. She doesn't know about my forays into the scene, although I started before I met her. I'd rather not have two halves to my life so what do I do? Many thanks for reading, listening and responding.
This is my first post so sorry to pose a serious question. I am fairly new to swinging (though taking to it like a duck to water!) and I would love my girlfriend to share the enjoyment. She has stated that she would love two guys at once but she has some issues, I think, regarding confusing love and lust. When she's horny it's something that gets her off but when we talk about it she seems to think that her going with someone else is unfaithful and a sign that she doesn't love me and vice-versa. She doesn't know about my forays into the scene, although I started before I met her. I'd rather not have two halves to my life so what do I do? Many thanks for reading, listening and responding.
