have been married for 25 years and always had an active sex life. have had fun with a small number of people i knew well but have never and will never, just meet strangers for anything. I need to feel comfortable. . I am very much the voyeur in this but not a true cuckold. I have a high standard of living and discretion is key. I think my first steps might be to play on cam, then have someone watch in person. A couple with a bi lady would be nice. don’t want pushy aggressive people.