Been talking about dipping our toe of late without ever actually having done it previously. I,m sure we are like many others before who like the idea but are a little nervous about taking the first step. We both like the idea of a straight male joining us but would probably need to meet to see if there is a spark first. Nothing to sordid just good old fashioned straight forward fun. Anything pushy would be a big put off for us and would much prefer an all round good egg to join us who was not under any pressure or illusion what meeting us would be all about. My wife is a lovely looking woman and i am an very average looking man (whats she doing with him type scenario).Also very average elsewhere also.