Hi there, we just want it to be known that at the moment we are complete novices. Ideally we are looking for a couple that would be sensitive to this, and be prepared to take it slow with no pressure. We don't want to waste your time, just as we don't want to waste ours!!! The thought of partipating in various activities appeals to us bth, but obviously with no experience we can not be 100% sure of what we will or will not enjoy. Thanks paulnnic x