Bear-like, bisexual and polyamorous, but looking for fun as well as romance. I'm also looking to experiment a
bit and get a clearer idea of what I do and don't like.

When I first play with someone the first thing I am likely to ask is "what don't you like?" I'd sooner find out about how someone doesn't
like to be touched in a particular way or in a particular place than do so in the middle of a session and spoil the mood.

The second thing I will ask is "what do you like?" I'm not submissive as such. But I do like to see a partner enjoying themselves and know that
I'm responsible.

I'm as much a sucker for a good looking face or body as the next person. But what really turns me on is what is inside the head. Be passionate
& enthusiastic with me. I doubt you'll be disappointed about the results.

So far I can say I really like oral, both giving and receiving. Threesomes and small group play are a major turn on for me, although as
yet I have only done this a few times. I'd love to try DP and, given the chance, DVP. Related to this if you are a single then I'm likely to be
interested in you as an adventuring partner in my explorations of group stuff. Most of my one-on-one time would be with my existing partners.

I've now been with two submissive partners and the trust shown by giving me control was a very arousing. I'm generally a big fan of the feeling
of skin moving against skin. I also like playing footsie with a partner as part of foreplay (no idea why as otherwise I don't have a foot fetish
as such). Oh yes, and I like kissing. If you prefer not to kiss swinging partners (as I gather some do) I doubt we'd work.

The only things that are definitely a problem for me are scat, to a lesser extent watersports and any D/S stuff that involves outright humiliation.

I am currently in three serious relationships. One lady lives with other partners & I visit her when I can (less than I used to as she has
moved out of London). One I am officially married to. I am also in another long-term relationship with an old friend. That last is a tad more
complex.

The first lady isn't a swinger, but knows what I get up to. The second is a tad more adventurous but health issues have been affecting her
libido. The last partner used to be a lot more promiscuous, but that isn't for them any more. All of these people know about each other and
anyone I am involved with from here. That is implicit with me being Polyamorous.

Related to this I'd really prefer it if the people I play with aren't telling lies about their activities here to their partners. It makes me a
little uncomfortable. If people want to meet my partners to check I'm not lying about my situation that can be arranged.

Oh, & if you are a guy & your profile says "straight" but you evidently aren't (because you are propositioning me) then forget it. I'm
not interested.