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PirateCommander
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 59
0 miles · Stranraer

About

I'm single, seeking possible LTR, but happy enough to play with a regular friend or regular contacts, rather than always someone different. Not currently as physically fit and active as I'd like to be due to long term leg injury recovery, but I can do a fine job of making a grown woman smile and shaky legged for the right reasons, but going for hikes, or long distance Pub Crawls, is out.

I like women who are straight. Straight & Bi Curious is OK, wouldn't be a first in a dynamic for me. I'm looking, ideally, for a regular local female playmate, maybe two, interested in exploring her kinky side, maybe meeting couples, once she knows me well enough to feel comfortable, though that's not essential. 
I can be quite OK with monogamy if a right someone comes along keen for that, I have the time for someone to get to know me well and I'd rather spend that time than not being able to remember many names [been there, done that, it ain't me]. Communication, honesty and nurturing trust ARE essential with me, right off the mark. 
I've no experience in Swinging other than a bag of 'events' that came about in life unplanned, so I don't consider myself experienced, but I'm interested enough to dabble and see how it suits me. I'd like to find a 'partner in crime', adventurous female play partner, the right person wanting long term is an option too.

I'm experienced in BDSM, as a Top/Dom, I will test pilot sensation and impact toys,  on me if needs be and this has been confused as 'submissive', however, it's risk assessment, I'm not using 'things' on anyone if I don't either have a valued opinion from someone I know well enough, or first hand know what it does. I build things and adapt things for support, positioning and optional restraint. I make harnesses, slings, swings, soft paracord cuffs, body cages etc to fit, which means, safer and much more suitable than cheap/flimsy brief play commercial Chinese 'Fancy Dress' or 'Cosplay' adult toys and am working on a Home 'Workout' Station presently ... possibly with bespoke marketability as an aid for coping with injuries / disability, but not why I'm doing it.
Important to note here though, I'm not going to rush into that stuff with anyone and anyone curious, please know, I'm not into paying or being paid, definitely I'm not a secret sub. I don't Switch either and I've 'been around the block', so I know how to say what I like, who I am, who and what someone I like is, that will be a she, who is submissive because it's HER thing and she chooses ME to facilitate her need/s ... fully mutually consented all the way.
Good communication is important with me, so I'm not suited for one off physical only hook ups with strangers, I'm used to enough communication to fairly much guarantee mutual satisfaction.

I'm used to genuine positive feedback regarding my 'anatomical awareness' ;-P and I really do like to please. For ME, getting to know whomever/s I'm playing with is always going to improve things all 'round, which is why I'm trying this site.
I'm optimistic there could be people near me who are on this site and might like me to get to know them after reading my profile. 

Now for the list most people word more tactfully.
I don't like Silicone implants, needle boosted fish lipped 'pouts', that sort of stuff.
I prefer smaller, petite / slim body type women from experience [so anyone morbidly obese, I will not be getting involved with you, even if I get you off] and I am [surprise, surprise] quite, quite cosy with occasional Bi female brief invitational encounters in a regular 'thing', preferably involving me, but also with the understanding that there are actually some things I just might not be able to DO [though feedback suggests I'm well worth the ask, grinz].
I like Tattoos, though they're not essential, I have a few myself. Tattoos can be super hot..
I've no piercings, but I do like them, especially carefully placed erotic ones on someone who enjoys them, .
Body type, ink, piercings and language aside, I don't have any racial or cultural discrimination issues.
I'm not keen on overt religiosity, racism, or xenophobia [National Pride is perfectly fine].

Important final 'thing' ... I have no 'closet', in respect of anything kinky, so anyone looking to meet and mix should know that I'll need advance prompting to be 'discreet' as it doesn't come naturally. I can do it fine, sure, but it ain't my 'default' mode.   

Interests

Exhibitionism
Making videos
Masturbation
Oral sex
Role play
Straight sex
Threesomes
Voyeurism

Seeking

Female
Age: 36 - 66
Distance: 100 miles